I have small boobs. I'm insecure. What do men REALLY look for in boobs?

Sounds like boobs are not the problem. Insecurity and fear is

Your insecurity is not from small breast. Its from you not having confidence in your own natural beauty.

If you think BIG BREAST are going to make you happy, Purchase them.

Start calling them perky. In later years, they won't be hanging like wrinkled veiny pendulums around your waist.

~feel better now ? ~

Basically that you have boobs, of any size, is sufficient. If you have a brain, a job, a warm personality, a nice smile and good general hygiene, these are of much greater value to most men.

It depends  on the guy. Every individual has their own preference some men like big boobs others like small and some men don't like boobs whatsoever!

Don't be so down about having small boobs hun, i used to have the same problem mine have grown slightly though but when you have big boobs boys seem to want to... "use" you more it's sad honestly love be proud of what you've got you don't need big boobs to make a boy like you!

Your problem is not your boobs it is that you place your self esteem in the approval of what a man may think about your breasts. In this way you are sexually objectifying yourself as you are not seeing your body and character as a whole.

In reality a man dates you, not your boobs. Men find breasts mesmerising no matter what their size, some prefer the buttocks or thighs it's a sexual thing, but once past the intial lusting they are looking for someone they get along with, then they will love you no matter what size you are.  So please do not buy into the medias idea of what men want, because what the media really want is to sell you insecurity to make you a better consumer. They want you to feel inadequate and depressed so they can make money from you.

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When they stereotype women in this way, they are also stereotyping men as sexual predators, don't buy into it.

You can buy either a Ferrari or a Rolls-Royce for about $1,000,000.00

If you gave men the choice of having a Ferrari or having a Rolls-Royce, some would choose the Ferrari and some would choose the Rolls-Royce.

It's not about the cars, it's about the men.

Same for "boobs."

My husband likes big boobs. My brother-in-law likes small ones. Each guy is different on what they like in the looks of a woman. However most men like a woman who can see her value as a person more than a body type. And the ones who choose women based on their bra size are idiots.

Sizes are just numbers and they are not the priority nor important in a relationship.

You born with a unique beauty of your own, your own DNA,Genetic,Style and shape,  you need to start to love yourself the way you are. You need to be confidential and accept yourself and appreciate the unique type of beauty that you own.

Someone who demand the size of breast for being in relationship with you, they're not interested in you, so they don't care about you either, they only care about your breast, so if you simply buy a wax figure of a breast and give it to them, you're going to be equal to that plastic breast! But do you really think that you deserve to be treated like this ? I don't think so, the most important point about you as a person is your character,thoughts, ideas, behaviors, principles and what's in your mind.

Also, we don't really have a ideal size and shape, who said big breast is the ideal shape ? Who determine that ? Every size and shape are ideals on their own terms, each style is unique and each shape is attractive by itself.

And you only need to approve people in your life who would respect you and want you for who you are and the way you are, otherwise they don't deserve you.

So as a man, I don't even care about the size of someone's breast,i wanna live with a person and a human being, not piece of muscle. And i communicate with people for who they are not for piece of muscle carrying out on their body!

The human species is especially drawn to Symmetry.

To most, it matters not what you think an ample bosom represents as long as it aligns well with the rest of package.

Symmetry is a good determination of strong Genetic matter.

As far as boobs go, we're looking for something that's actually there. I mean, if we can lay our heads on your boobs and just go straight to sleep right there, then we are perfectly fine.

If I could sleep every day on the boobs of the woman I loved, I don't think I would EVER have nightmares. No, I don't think it would be possible to have nightmares.

But don't be insecure about them. I'm sure they'll plump up a bit sometime in the future. And then, you'll be wishing your boobs were smaller lol

Big boobs don't make you "womanly." That's a common misconception, especially among young women. What makes you womanly is self-confidence.

You're still young, and your breasts may grow a little, a lot, or not at all. But the fact is, it truly doesn't matter when it comes to attracting guys. The main difference between you and me is that I have tons of self-confidence, and you don't. I'm flat as the proverbial pancake, yet because I believe in myself, I'm also hot as a firecracker!

I do understand your anxiety, but trust me, small boobies are the best. Yeah, there are some knuckle-dragging, mouth-breathing Neanderthals who are only into huge hooters. And most of them are virgins! Any guy who has actually ever been close to a woman knows that boobs are boobs, and most men love all breasts, regardless how big or small they are

I wear a 38A bra, and you know what? My breasts are possibly my best feature. I wear tops that accentuate how small they are, and I take pride in them. They're perfectly proportioned to my petite figure, and I wouldn't change them for the world.

If I go to the beach, I wear a bikini that shows exactly how small my breasts are. I walk with confidence, meet people's eyes, and smile a lot. And you know what people see? They see a red-hot sexy 37 year old woman with small breasts. I know that's what people think, because of the smiles and other reactions I get.

And you know what else? If I go to a club or a party, I have no trouble attracting guys. It's a myth that all guys want big boobs. What guys do like is self-confidence. I don't try to make mine look bigger, I celebrate what I have, and guys like that.

As an experiment, try wearing a tight top some time, one that screams "I have small breasts, and I'm proud of them." I think you'll be surprised by the positive reactions you get.

Take pride in what you have, project self-confidence, and lots of guys will be after you!

Men who look for women because of their boobs .. Are really boobs themselves.  The right guy for a girl will love everything about her.  Does it really matter what the rest think?

Boobs don't make the woman. The woman makes the boobs. Understand how to do that and guys/girls will be all over you.