Lucy Burroughs answered
First of all, stop worrying! Having a boyfriend is not as important as people seem to think, especially not in sixth grade. The most important thing is to be able to be happy by yourself; only then might you want to start thinking about a boyfriend.
What's more important than getting a date is getting a good date. You don't just want to say yes to anybody who asks - having a boyfriend for the sake of it is much worse than not having one at all!
However, if you're really determined to get a date, here are a few tips:
However, if you're really determined to get a date, here are a few tips:
- Try to broaden your social group. Hang out with friends in places where you're likely to meet other people your age.
- Spend time with boys as well as girls; friendship is a good place to start, and getting to know someone can often lead to a relationship.
- Don't show that you're desperate for a boyfriend. If you do, you're more likely to find guys who just want a girlfriend, rather than wanting you as their girlfriend.
- I know it might not make sense, but stop looking for a boyfriend. You're more likely to find romance when you're not looking for it!
- Remember that you don't need to take dating seriously. If you date someone when you're in sixth grade, they're not likely to be the person you'll spend the rest of your life with. Just have fun together and take things slow.
- Be yourself; people can tell when you're trying too hard. You'll get more respect for being you!
