How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I Really Am Sorry After A Fight And When I Do Say Sorry She Says I Dint Mean How Else Can I Show Her I'm Sorry?
However, if she feels that she needs her space to try and think things over then you have to respect her for that as well. They always say If you love someone, then you have to let them go, but if they come back around then that's how you will know - Meaning, you will know that the love you both have is true.
Well, let me see... you make a mistake and apologize, and she says you are not apologising right? That sounds like she is unaccepting of you or your apology. My advice. You follow "you don't mean it" with Ok, then I will assume, you don't accept it (my apology), and let me know when you want to accept it.. Then I would turn and walk away.
She is manipulating you and playing a game with "you don't mean it", and you put yourself out there only to have what ever you said as apology rejected. So accept it, tell her you take that as an unacceptable apology and then leave it to her. Good news for you is, once you refuse to play the game and say ok let me know when you decide to accept me ( as sincere), she will most likely get over herself real quick and call you back.