How Can I Tell A Good Friend That I Am In Love With Them?


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Hly NZ answered
As with all relationships, whether they be romantic, friendships, family, etc - honesty is always the best policy. I know it sounds cliche but it has always rung true for me. In other words, if it was me, I would just tell him and let what ever happens, happen. I'm a believer in fate too, so if things don't work out then it wasn't meant to be.

In saying that, I think you really need to ask yourself, and again be honest, how much a romantic relationship with him (as opposed to a friendship) means to you. I noted you said "I am fine with being friends, but being more would be great", you need to ask yourself how great that "great" really is. The reality is, if you do tell him the way you feel and he doesn't feel the same way, as you say, it could change your friendship and to be honest, with something as big as that, I don't think there's a way to breach the subject without whatever is said, not changing things.

In short, you need to decide how much it means to you to have him as your partner and more than a friend. After that, your options are:

1. - if it means a lot, then ask him and prepare yourself for the consequences.

2. - if you are happy with just being friends and not risking it, then you need to let it go and just enjoy his company as a friend and put anything else out of your mind.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
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Anonymous answered
Bump that ok! Girlfriend you tell him that I like hanging out with you and enjoy you a lot! Then you ask him what do you think of me after tell him how you feel and hopefully you get good results remember these 3 rules ok! Rule # 1.don't panic b calm like you enjoy him tons rule # 2.look him in his eyes that way hell really really know you love him in that way and rule # 3.if he says no then move on there is always someone out there thats way special trust me!
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Selena Peirce answered
Just tell him how you feel your just going to suffer in silence other-wise
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laquesha lewis answered
You should first seen if he like you the way that you like him ok kind just brake it down to him very easy and then you let him know that you want to be more then friends

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