Samuel Chiltern answered
The old adage that 'actions speak louder than words' definitely rings true in the world of romance.
Anyone can string words together, and some people are very good at using the right words to influence others, without the other person even realising that they're being deceived.
Judge a Person's Intentions by Their Actions
Always look for actions when you want to know whether someone is genuine. Words are cheap, and a man who loves you will be thoughtful towards you - it won't be any trouble for him to text you during the day to see how you are, or phone you on the evenings that you can't be together.
The key thing to remember is that, if he loves you, he'll be thinking about you, and he'll want to spend time with you. When you're together, he'll want to hold you close and be intimate with you. He'll be happy just to spend the day in your company, doing nothing in particular, because there isn't anything else he'd rather do.
Try to Work Out Why He Acts the Way He Does
Having said all that, remember that there might be other things in his life that take a lot of his time and energy, or which might be upsetting him or stressing him out.
If he seems distant, or isn't able to find much time to spend with you, talk to him about it. Ask him open questions, and try not to sound accusative.
If he really loves you, he won't cheat on you, but you might push him away if you accuse him of something he hasn't done, so approach the subject carefully.
Many men are very busy these days. People are working longer hours, and often doing the work of more than one person. If he has children from a previous relationship, they always will be top priority for him - nobody can come between a parent and their children.
If you love him, you will have to learn to accept that there might be some things in your relationship that cannot be changed. But don't waste your love on anyone who doesn't show you the respect you deserve.
Anyone can string words together, and some people are very good at using the right words to influence others, without the other person even realising that they're being deceived.
Judge a Person's Intentions by Their Actions
Always look for actions when you want to know whether someone is genuine. Words are cheap, and a man who loves you will be thoughtful towards you - it won't be any trouble for him to text you during the day to see how you are, or phone you on the evenings that you can't be together.
The key thing to remember is that, if he loves you, he'll be thinking about you, and he'll want to spend time with you. When you're together, he'll want to hold you close and be intimate with you. He'll be happy just to spend the day in your company, doing nothing in particular, because there isn't anything else he'd rather do.
Try to Work Out Why He Acts the Way He Does
Having said all that, remember that there might be other things in his life that take a lot of his time and energy, or which might be upsetting him or stressing him out.
If he seems distant, or isn't able to find much time to spend with you, talk to him about it. Ask him open questions, and try not to sound accusative.
If he really loves you, he won't cheat on you, but you might push him away if you accuse him of something he hasn't done, so approach the subject carefully.
Many men are very busy these days. People are working longer hours, and often doing the work of more than one person. If he has children from a previous relationship, they always will be top priority for him - nobody can come between a parent and their children.
If you love him, you will have to learn to accept that there might be some things in your relationship that cannot be changed. But don't waste your love on anyone who doesn't show you the respect you deserve.