there's a kind man who loves me and cares about me all the time for 3 years but I don't love him back I faced him with that and he refused to go away and I am afriad that I will never find someone like him treat me like princess what I should do?


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Yin And Yang answered

You can not be in a relationship where you do not love the guy for fear that you will never find another guy who would treat you like a princess. That is not fair to either of you. What you did by telling him the truth is the best thing. Now YOU need to pull it together and stop leading him on.......

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rimmy perry
rimmy perry commented
I told him before the truth but he don't wanna go away what I should do
Iam not lying to him or telling that I love him he knew the truth and he trying as hard as he can to make me love him and deep down on my heart I wish I can love him or leave him cuz being with him and the way he is hurting me :(
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
I am so sorry you are hurting. It seems like you both have a really big heart. You just don't feel the same way for him as he does for you. Stay firm with him. I hope he will get the picture soon.
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Walt O'Reagun answered

1 - Stop trying to find a guy who will treat you as a princess.  UNLESS you ARE an actual princess.  In which case, good luck finding a guy who isn't after you just for a trophy ... Or because your two kingdoms need an arranged marriage. 

2 - If he refuses to accept that you will only be friends, you need to break off all ties.  Even friendship.  Don't hang around him any more.  Contrary to what you think, if he can't accept your wishes he really doesn't respect you.

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Tom Jackson answered

Basic rule of life:  You can't maximize everything.

Beyond that comment, I'm not sure what your expectations are for these types of relationships and in particular, what your expectation is and has been for this relationship.

I'd suggest talking to a professional to help you clarify what the best course of actgion for you might be---both now and in the future.

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