Have you ever felt as if you would never find love and get married? And are you currently in love? [Sorry if personal]
Nope, never thought I would never find love ... Though I did think that I would never marry ... Given that the marriage didn't work out, I should have stuck to that belief.
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Just before you go to sleep each night ( for 30 days for five minutes or less) invision, the person of your desire.
This works better if it is someone you have never before seen.
Then when you wake up in the morning, repeat the process.
Add as much detail as possible. Maybe see you and this person
doing things together. (warning) After the 30 day period stop or
you will push them away. " Believe and Receive"
just before you open your eye's
Like what most people said, it's pretty normal to feel that way from time to time. Sometimes I've felt that way just because most of my friends were in relationships and I almost never was (except for once but they were just using me to get back at their ex so it didn't last). It wasn't because I was expecting some perfect person to fall head over heels in love with, it was just that I was almost never the girl people wanted to be in relationships with. I've just never met anyone who liked me that way or wanted to try to see if things could work out between us. Back in high school and stuff, I used to be pretty upset that no matter what I did, no one would give me a chance. So yeah, it wasn't due to unrealistic expectations of a soulmate or lack of effort, it was simply that I wasn't anyone's type to even have the opportunity to do anything. Plus teenagers can be shallow...
But I recognize that I'm still young so if there were ever a person out there who could like me, then I still have time to meet that person. Looking back, I don't even know why I felt so bad about it. I was only a teenager and I suppose I was just being overly dramatic like most teens. Right now, I'm freaking out about affiliating in my college major to worry about relationships so I guess I just have different priorities at the moment (which should already tell you that no, I'm not in love haha!).
I dated and was even in a couple of serious relationships. None of them seemed right, and even dated a few losers along the way. Then I just said screw it. I gave up on finding anyone and decided I was going to do it on my own. I was working my way up at work, and was looking for a house to buy. In other words I focused on me and improving my life and myself. I was in my early 30s.
Then one night while out with friends at a sports bar watching Monday Night Football, I met someone. He asked me out and we have been together since. That was nearly 20 years ago. We have been married over 18 years.
