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My ex bf is a violent alcoholic and he keeps stalking me...what should I do?

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John Doe answered

Apply for a restraining order, it's really not that hard, keep any texts, phone records and anything he sends you. Take your information and file! They will issue an emergency order, then you'll go to court to get one for however many months they issue it for.

Police really can't do anything unless one of these orders are in place.

Nikki Ridgerider Profile

Download an app. It's by Dr. Phil's wife. It's disguised as a regular news app, but you can hit a panic button to alert the authorities if you're in a situation of domestic violence. I believe it's called Aspire News.

Or you can go to the police station and get a restraining order like everyone else suggested. This sort of thing happened with my mom before I was born, and that's what she did.

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Anonymous answered

Call the cops. File a restraining order, immediately. Don't chance getting hurt.

Izzy SouthernGirl Profile

You need to call the police.

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Farod Jackson answered

Many times we are still in love with an abusive lover or ex in this case.

Still love needn't blind common sense. If he is truly a stalker the call the police. Serve him a restaining order and move on with your life. 

Most importantly keep movingf forward and stay away from this guy. When choosing your next boy friend try going into the relationship from a position of strenght and love. Let go of any feelings of neediness and submissiveness. 

At the first sign of violent always move on, you will find someone kind and gentle when you truly feel that is what you deserve in your life.

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