Is It True When People Say You'll Find A Girlfriend / Boyfriend When You're Not Looking For One? Also Could You Post Any Stories About It If You Have Any?

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Christian Webb Profile
Christian Webb answered
Yes, it is. I found my boyfriend when i was not looking. I gave up on myself after my last ex, because he told me when we broke up i'd never find another guy that i would be able to keep! Imagine how i felt after that. But my boyfriend zac became my best friend. He understood me. He had back problems (still does, sadly) and he understood what my pain was, because girls turned him down because of his back. I felt sorry for him. So we took each other in. One day, when we were SUPER close, he started flirting. I fell for him. He was perfect. He and i were together, in that one little room, me against the walls, his arms surrounding me (like in the movies). ''are you trying to make me like you?'' i asked. ''why, is that a bad thing?'' "no," i answered," i want you. Alot. For a long while now." he asked me out, and of course i said yes. He leaned in and kissed me.

He was the only one that would help me. I didnt believe in myself, but he has helped to heal my broken heart from my ex. He was the only one when i had given up on boyfriends. I wasn't looking. He found me instead. That was and still is the best day of my life.
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Arthur Wright answered
Yes its true, when you least expect it, Mr/Mrs Right will come along whether you're ready or not for it to happen, The worst problem is if you're with someone when this happens
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Well i believe you do because the current boyfriend i have now and love to death i found when i wasn't even looking for a boyfriend cuz i had a huge crush on this guy in my class but then i met him and we fell in love we've ben together seven moths last sunday but we seriously talked for idk how long b4 we got together.
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Oh i just also wanna say its not worth going out somebody if your just going out with them cuz you want a gf just relax and it will happen when it happens. The more you think aout the more your going to freak out for no reason.
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Yeah, I see your point. It's just that I'd like to have somebody in my life, you know? Someone I can talk to and care about... Someone who'll be like a best friend to me...
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It's true. I was sitting on a bench at church camp and joel came to sit by me. He had his skech book and a pencil then out of no where he asked "can i skech you." It took me a second then said yes. I changed how i was sitting and made myself look really cute. Then he began, it took him 30 minutes. After he was done he showed it to me. I looked hot then he asked me out. I said yes. He kissed me. We lasted for 4 years then we brook up, cause he lives in Canada and he gave me a promise ring so i brook up with him. He was so mad but now we are just friends.
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I truly believe this!! Well here's me and my fiances story!! Well we were both dating alot, and one day my neighbor who is gay wanted me to leave a message on a phone chat so he could talk to the guys (witch dont make any sence for him to talk to straight guys) but anyway i left a dumb message where i was moaning and my neighbor leaves and i start listening to the guys on there, completely forgeting about my message!! And i didnt care, i wasnt really gonna talk to anyone i was just messing around!! Well my fiance goes on just for the hell of it, not thinking hes gonna meet anyone or even wanting to cause he met a few from it and they were weirdos!! But he leaves me a message asking me if im alright, just being a smartass!! Well we start talking and we meet and here we are now 7 years later!! Still together!!
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I think it has to do with trying to hard and being desperate, losing confidence, looking the fool. In that case, sure back off awhile and chill. Now, what ever you were doing was not working. Some kind of change is needed when something does not work. Most of my lady action comes from a friend of a friend. One of my friends will set me up with a nice lady friend of theirs if I like her. It pays to have a lot of friends, all the way around. One guy I know has this technique that works for him. He goes to a party or club and says he asks 15 ladies to go home with him. He swears before he gets to 15 one will say, yes. He calls it a numbers game. Anyway, you should find what works for you...
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tinga nih answered
Life is full of uncertainty.. Some madly in love couples can fall out of love too.. We can never tell what would happen.. =D and thats the beauty of life.. Full of surprises.. =D love they say is something you don't look for .. We just feel it.. For if it were like that a lot of people would have find it easy.. We struggle from time to time for looking for that one.. And yeah we also define girl/boyfriend different.. For some it may just be for fun.. Companion.. Well for me its more than that.. I don't spend time for something im not thinking of having for the rest of my life.. =D (just me) and so my example would be a bit serious.. A friend of mine here shared me her love life.. =D you knew that right??.. She was just on some field trip with her students in a museum.. And she found this man.. =D they were never really there to look for love.. And so a love at first site... So much in love they had become.. =D
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Tinga, are you talking about me?? You are SO sweet!! However I was not on a field trip with my students that day. I was at the museum alone to see the exhibition. My husband on the other hand was there because of his work. He was a professional photographer and artcritic, remember? Everything else is right - we were most defenately NOT there to look for love, but it was love at first sight for both of us. And the first thing he said to me was: "I want to marry you!"
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tinga nih commented
LOL you being an art teacher got stuck in my head.. LOL hahaha and yes i was thinking about you.. =D as always when its all about love.. =D
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Oh, and did you know something else? Vincent actually thought love wasn't for him, since he had never been in love before he met me. He was 32 years old and he had been with MANY women before me, so he thought it was impossible for him to fall in love. And there I was thinking I knew what love was, but in fact I had no clue. In that very moment I saw Vincent every man I had ever met faded into nothing. We worshiped each other, and that passionate love still remains. I will NEVER remarry.
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lance holder answered
It is so true. I met my current girlfriend at my cousin's birthday party and i only went because there was going to be a bonfire and monsters (the energy drink, not real monsters). I wasn't looking for a relationship but one found me and now i'm the happiest that i've ever been
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When you are looking for love the opposite sex can sense that, which is not always a good thing, for you can give a sort of desperate impression. And also you can tend to look in all the wrong places for a new love, which will lead to disappointment after disappointment and in the end you become confused. But if you relax and don't think about love you radiate an independence instead, which we women find attractive since it indicates that you are a strong man. That may not always be the case, but unconsciously we women believe that. It is the same for both men and women - we ALL want a strong partner in life. It is humen nature since only the strong survive - look at the evolution. When you get older I think you will find this out for yourself - when you do not think about love and you are not looking for a woman, then you are going to discover that MORE women are looking at YOU instead, and then when you least expect it you will meet that special one to share your life with. Regards "Languages".
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I want to make an elucidation. What I meant by "looking in the wrong places" is that when you are on the search for a new love in your life, then you tend to not be the same discerning person that you normally are, since you are longing too much for love. That is why you are more likely to meet the RIGHT person for you when you are NOT looking for love. Lovetaurus, I wish you all the best in life. Take good care of yourself. Regards "Languages".
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Monica Smith answered
Yes I think that statement is 100% true. You are so young, you don't want to waste your time trying to find love. Just be yourself and when you least expect it, love will come along and slap you right in the face! Just live your life, don't let the little things pass you by.
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Anonymous answered
When your expecting something it doesnt happen.
You just got to wait and wait for the right person to come to you.
Youve got all you life to find , no rush when you dont expect anyfing it just happens. Thats the way life is. I got to give yous a hint guys, dont be too perfect because she or he will turn around at you and take advantage of you. Dont be to easy. Thanks
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Anonymous answered
Well this is a 'late' answer. But yes,love can come unexpectedly/unstoppingly. When I found it I wasn't even looking! It just happened..an either was he! We were/are just right 2gether and meant to be. Things can always happen with love dude,don't worry dreams come true. ;)

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