Should I Have Sex

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Deemarcas Day Profile
Deemarcas Day answered
You have your entire life to have sex.  This boy just wants to use you so he can say he got a virgin, and will probably tell everyone and ruin your reputation.  If you are thinking about a baby at 15, then you need serious help.  Do you want to go anywhere in life?  Is it your goal to live on Medicaid and food stamps all you life in a project or a trailor park?.  This is your future: If you have a baby at 15.  Don't depend on your folks to hold you up.  If you think you are grown up enough to have a baby at 15, then they will think you are grown up enough to take care of yourself and baby.  Also, Baby Daddy, ain't gonna be there, he's going to be running around, having a party, having sex with other girls and leaving you alone.  DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE!  The monetary benefits you think you might receive will not cover your nike shoes and your angel jeans, much less for the needs of your child.  If you really are a mature girl, you'll continue with school, and act like somebody.  
ACT LIKE SOMEBODY is a term we use in Appalachian America to say don't be a fool, or get your head out of your ass.  
Sorry to be so harsh, but it will be a lot harsher if you have a baby at your age.
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Sylvia Maria Keels Keels
Thanks but i u didnt have to be so mean to me im only 14 u coulda said it nicer
Willard NOYB
Willard NOYB commented
A perfect answer, I guess she wasn't near as tough as she thought but you did nail it dead center. If she were to have a baby she'd really have to turn on the tough and not just make a bunch of noise about it.
vanessa Angel
vanessa Angel commented
This is so funny, she wants you to feel bad because shes 14. But you should see the other things she asks. I think you are so right. And you are not being mean but (firm). We just know these things already and trying to give advice to babies trying to bring innocent babies into this world!
nettie Profile
nettie answered
Most people ask questions before but this one seems to come after the fact, too bad but I feel teens ask questions but they already have their mind made up as to if they are going to have sex or not, I really don't see the purpose because the young lady said she is or thinks she is ready so no matter what answers she gets it is ON...no doubt in my mind wishing you the best
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surendar selvam answered
The decision to have sex
is a big one. A lot of teens feel physically ready for sex before they
feel emotionally ready. As a result, the right time isn't always the first time the opportunity presents itself.


It's also important to remember that sex is more than penetration or
oral sex. There are plenty of ways to be intimate with another person
that might be more comfortable for you than having sex would be.
Some teens feel close and sexual with a partner by kissing, cuddling, sharing fantasies or giving and getting massages.

Deciding
what activities you are and are not comfortable with before you get
into a sexual situation can be really helpful in making sure you have a
positive experience.


Ultimately, only you will know when the time is right. But how can you know? Asking yourself a few key questions is a great way to help you figure this out!

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