I think that you have been with him long enough to know whether you are going to keep being compatible with him. But sometimes it takes people 5 years to realize that. You need to go with your heart and gut feelings. If you get the sensations of not wanting to be with him or that you don't feel you have the type of relationship you want or expect maybe you need to rethink things. It really means nothing to not know how you feel. But it also means ALOT! My first relationship took 5 years of figuring out what was right and not. My 2nd one (whom I am married to now) didn't take me but about 3 months of dating to realize that was how I wanted things to be. My husband and I have a great relationship!! Good luck w/this. I know that it is a hard thing to try and figure things out, especially if you are "younger"!
