My boyfriend and I are going through a bad time where he just doesn't have time for me as he is always working. I feel like he's never there or he realizes what I might mean to him. Would taking a break be a good idea?

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Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
Right couple, wrong time here. A break wouldnt be the worst thing here before something permanent happens. Although there is no guarantee it still wont but something has to be done here. Break up mutually for awhile so each can go their own seperate way but saty as friends for awhile and see what happens. Good luck
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Don't have a break because thats definately the beginning of the end, ask yourself why is he working all the time, is it because you need the money, or is it just his choice, if you need the money then its understandable, if its his choice then its questionable, cook him his favourite meal, wear your sexiest outfit, and make him see how good he's got it, all the best :))
esphyka bernardo Profile
Hello.  You know what?  I've been through this situation and sometimes it still happen, yeah it feels really bad and funny to get jealous about BF's work work work... We girls feel neglected and taken for granted by this, but I don't think having a break in a relationship because of this issue is the key for him to realized that you are taken for granted and was hurt by him. Boys will be boys. We don't know exactly whats on their mind but if we think positively, love and trust the guy whole heartedly we will realized that he works because he's preparing for the future. I believe open communication will help and enlighten you. Cheer up!
Jeremiah Southworth Profile
That's called life. Would you rather be dating a lazy, unemployed bum? How old are you anyway? If you aren't old enough to be looking for a husband, you're too young to be dating exclusively anyway. The whole point to being exclusive with someone is because you want to be in a committed relationship with them because you are looking for your life-long partner. If you are still in high school, this isn't something you should be doing. If you aren't in high school, and you are looking for a husband, ask yourself what kind you want. Do you want a husband that loves you and works hard to provide for you and your family? Or do you want a husband that loves you, and doesn't work but instead stays home all day and listens to your feelings?

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