If when you're having sex, he's super nervous and freaking out the entire time. Usually the first time a guy has sex, he has it with somebody he really likes so he won't just get up and leave afterwards. He'll hold you and tell you he loves you.
If he is desperate to do stuff with you, but when you do he doesn't know what he is doing and is nervous.
He also may be really shy about it, and not want to do those kind of things.
He also may be really shy about it, and not want to do those kind of things.
You can't without them telling you. His behavior is not going to give you the answer. It might be a hint, but you can't be positive. A guy doesnt have to be a virgin to be nervous, and lots of guys will cuddle and tell you "I love you" afterwards.
Well if you really want to know ask him but if you think that embarrsing you can tell if you don't fell like he know what hes doing hopefully I'm helpful hun
If he kind of shys away from having sex when you try to or bring it up.