How Do You Know If A Guy Is Worth It?


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lakeesha Hennessy Williams Profile
You'll know that a guy is worth by a number of tell-tale signs.

In my opinion, everything from how he treats you through to what he gets up to when you're not around will determine whether a guy is worth your love and affection.

Here's what makes a guy worth it:

Is my guy worth it? Let's face it, being in a relationship isn't always plain sailing. Relationships can be a lot of work. They involve a lot of give-and-take, and making sure a guy is worth the effort is really important to your happiness.

Also, in the early days of a relationship, all that lust and passion can make things seem a little confusing. Even guys who aren't up to scratch can seem like a great catch at first!

Based on my experiences, there are a couple of signs to look out for that will tell you whether he is one for keeps, or if he's just the flavor of the month.

How to tell if a guy is worth it
  • The first thing to look out for is how he treats you. Does he still open doors for you? Does he enjoy treating and spoiling you? This is a good sign of a guy who's worth it.
  • Can you trust him when you're not around? Does he spend his alone time thinking about you or does he switch off when you're not around?
  • Has he made you a part of his life? This covers all the small things that might not seem like a big deal, but actually are really important. Does he introduce you to his friends? Are you involved in different aspects of his life? Does he want to show you off and include you in all his interests?
Finally, you should always bear in mind that, whilst not all guys start off being 'worth it', there is also that group that I like to call 'has good potential'.

This is a group of men who, with the right training and guidance, have the potential to be absolutely right.
Melanie Swift Profile
Melanie Swift answered
I don't know if you are asking is a guy worth waiting on?
Is he worth going out with?
Is he worth your time?
Is he worth having sex with?

A guy is worth it only if he respects you all the time. Respect plays a huge part in a relationship. If a guy respects you he will not push you into doing anything that you are not comfortable with. He will not call you names or try to talk you into anything illegal.

He will always put you and your feelings first. He will always want what is best for you. He will be the best friend you ever had. If you say no, then he will not ask again he will wait on you.

If you are feeling like you are being pushed into even thinking about things you're not ready for just back up and take a deep breath and know that what is right for you is not right for everyone. Sex is a big step...really big!!.

You can get pregnant the first time and you have your whole life ahead of you and plenty of time for children. Live a little...heck live a lot before you make this step. Sex feels good, it's true. The first time can be really uncomfortable and painful.

You will bleed and probably be embarrassed so make sure it is with the right guy and you are old enough for the consequences of it all. Remember you have plenty of time for all the sex stuff.

Once you lose your innocence it can never be brought back. My advice is to wait...and then wait some more. If this guy loves you and cares about you and is worth it he won't mind. If he does, let him go. It might hurt to lose him but what you lose is more important. Remember...

Love is patient and kind;is not jealous or boastful;it is not arrogant or rude. Does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Bears all things, believes in all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Lover never ends... So faith, hope, love abide,... These three; but the greatest of these is Love.
Make sure he loves you and you love him and this takes lots a time to know.Be patient, if he is pressuring you take a break.

It doesn't mean that he is not worth it, maybe just a little immature.

Both of you need to take your time growing up. There are so many things to enjoy. Sex is one that can wait. You will know when you are ready. Who says you have to lose your virginity before marriage or even when you are a teenager. You make your rules. God said wait until you are married. He also said to put your trust in Him and not people.

Talk to God about it..he is always ready to listen. He will always answer you with a still and quiet voice only you can hear in your heart. Be Blessed!!!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
If a guy cries over you, he is worth it. If when you see that guy...and a smile appears across his face...he is the one.
monique villalobos Profile
Well I'm not really sure what you are asking and about what, but you know when a guy is worth it when you can trust him and he trusts you. That's the main thing that you know when he's the right one...
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roniece wright answered
First of all you need to really get to know the guy and after at least a month or so of getting to know him, you should have your answer.
emily matlock Profile
emily matlock answered
Worth what? And if you mean just being with then it is well if you trust each other...he is loyal and doesn't lie...

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