Why Does Sex Hurt Girls But Not Boys?

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Anonymous answered
Most guys (I'm a guy) when they first start having sex don't have a clue about taking it slow and getting the girl ready/wet, I know I didn't have a clue and just wanted to put it in there as soon as possible.  Then I had a girlfriend who taught me how to take my time, play with each other with hands and orally, and when it comes time to put it in, do it slowly and take time before going all the way in, slow and a little at a time.  Yeah, she had sex with like all my friends, but she was a great teacher If it's the first few times for a girl, having the girl on top allows her to control how far inside of her she wants it.  And, I found it's a lot more fun for both to have sex that way.
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This was mi first time having sex (I'm a girl) but it only hurts to some gurls "it felt good"
Sex hurts girls for there first time because the penis is to big for the virgina when you are having sex for the first time make sure you don't tense up and just relax all your muscles
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Graham Naked answered
Sex only hurts girls if they are not prepared properly, before penetration they should be very sexually excited and very wet with lubrication. The first time a guy should also take his time until she gets used to it!
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Brandi lol answered
It hurts the first time because of the hymn (thin skin that is torn when penetrated).  I also think its because the guy penetrates and at first you're not use to anything being there and when you're nervous you tighten up which puts more strain on the body. Once its done a few times it should stop hurting (at least I've read) and it'll get easier. If it keeps hurting than you might have a problem. Endometriosis could be the culpret.
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If the intercourse is painful then condition is called Dyspareunia. This can be due to medical and psychological causes. Most common medical causes are urinary tract infections, endometriosis, tumors and herpes etc. Psychologically, fear of pain on penetration cause spasm of vaginal muscles leading to superficial pain.
If woman has pain right from first intercourse then there might be dry vaginal conditions which require lubrication during intercourse. If a woman previously was fine after having sex and recently got this pain then visit to doctor is necessary.

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Drummergal answered
Because your body is reacting to a new object , and it is rejecting a object / penis until it becomes use to it  .     Just like if you were to take a big bite of liver or something you were not sure of , you would eject it / throw up / discard   , your vagina reacts in much the same way.

I hope I made sense here for you
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Anonymous answered
I'm glad I checked all these my girl friend and I have been texting each other saying soon we will have sex and I wasn't sure if it was going to hurt her
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Well I just had sex for my first time. It did hurt it was a pain that can be taken away by pleasure. As for guys they like virgins because they like it tight. Which causes them more pleasure.
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I loved sex 4 the first time it felt soooo nice (im a girl) im 17 and it felt fun we went full on and i did it for 30 mins
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Faith Stockler commented
I am a girl 15 and my boyfriend had sex with me
It did hurt but I think your right it did feel good after a minute
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It can be for a few reasons. The guy is too big for the girl; the girl isn't wet enough; or the girl is a virgin. Virgins still have the hymen (I think that's how it's spelled) and when the *cough* girl parts are entered by the guy parts then the hymen breaks and it is painful for most girls. Guys don't have one >< so they don't get hurt.
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My partner has a big penius..it's like a horse...all I know is that it hurts when we have sex...he should try to get me wetter...because when we be doing it..I just do it for!! I'm not a virgin...but he should really get me wetter...so I can enjoy thus and not only him!! Lol
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It's because your vagina isn't big enough to fit the penis in.  If the penis is very big then I suggest warming up and "getting loose" before you have sex
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private private answered
If the pain  during ntercourse was painful then it is normal to feel pain immediately after intercourse for a virgin, but other wise seek medical help.
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miaa grey answered
I'm 14 and I want to hav sex with a boy that I dumped ages ago but still love I aint told him and its going to stay like that as he will probaly laugh and give me one of his looks, so I say if you 14 or 15 16 13 12 whatever then maybe you should wait you have your intire life ahead you've got plenty of time to start a sexual relationship but if you don't want to wait then get it over and done with you should do it with someone you trust particulary and someone you love thats the best way. And yes it does hurt for th first time girls   and it is painful but after a few minutes you will begin to enjoy it and begin to gain pleasure from it and thats when you start have an organism ...good luck x
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nettie answered
Males can also be hurt when having sex with a young lady that has not been sexually active and the pushing while attempting to penetrate the hyman of a virgin can end up causing a tear,scratch etc on a males sexual organ, a like of males don't wish to have sex with a virgin unless they have some experience on how not to get hurt themselves.....good luck  
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nettie commented
At your age this is something you should be talking about with your parents....
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Anonymous commented
I am 16 all most 17 and sex is stil hurting me why is that.
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I am a girl nad 16 all most 17 why is sex still hurting me
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It is just like gas tube, it will be very difficult when we insert the tube at first time.
Similarly here for females gets hurt when it happens at first time.

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