Because guys thrive on challenge. If you pay a lot of attention to them, then they find your not that much of a challenge. That is just the way that it is.....guys are sports driven.....doesn't matter what it is...they like to challenge, they like to win and they like to pursue.
Pull away and they want you back and now you are a challenge....it works everytime.
Look every guy likes a challege, (we like em' too.) Maybe they'll accept easy prey as well, but they probably won't take her seriously. When they ignore you maybe they're not THAT interested however, when you ignore them they BECOME interested because you become a challege, you become the prize they want BUT can't get. You can play with that as you wish because this sort of means you have gained control I've played with this and sometimes it feels like they put you up in a friggin pedestal its crazy how sometimes men fall for the girls who can treat them like crap so if you just want to have fun -enjoy. But remember that the dude who will really like you for who you are will be interested even if you don't ignore him. Hope this sorta works.-Thillet.
I agree very much with Flowers123! When you ignore them, and if they really like/love you, they will come running because you are mysterious, not like all the other girls who are like 'ALL out there". YOu know what I mean. Remember, let him come to you, you to him!
Guys like it when they can't have it easily. They always want what they can't have or can't have that easily. So Ignore him from time to time and don't reveal everything about you. Be like a hidden treasure. :)