I just answered your other question, didn't see this one first, or I might have answered differently. sounds like you are having a hard time letting go. you told him you love him, and he didn't return the sentiment, PLUS he wanted to take a break from you to date another girl!!!!! I'm sure your feelings for him are legit, but it doesn't sound like he deserves you. he'll get what he deserves. hold out for something better!
This means most certainly it is time to move on. He does not feel the same, it is time to pack up the emotional laundry and go buy a new ward robe!
If you flow to l.a and he could tell you that he loved you back after you said that ii think you need to let him go ..He could possibly be in shock but I doubt it...How does he feel about you?
I'm In the same boat but, I'm married now! I still have mad love for the ex and have told him that I still love him but now, he will not say it back. I was told by my best friend that he told her I hurt him too many times. I'm from L.A. But, moved out of state so, whenever I go back home, we always hook up.... Dinners, movies, drinks @ the bar.....sex! I just feel trapped in a life that isn't really mine. I married my husband for reasons other than love. If, he didnt need the favor we would have never got married. I didnt realize I was in love with the ex until 5 years into the relationship with my now husband. I still talk to the ex on the phone and everytime we talk he tells me that I am the one who messed up. What do I do?? Is the ex into me me or did I really mess it up?? HELP!
It means he don't have any feelings for you.Love is not to have someone, Love is to just see the person happy..even with you or without you. So just go ahead.
If he is like that, then you need to 4get about him. Hope this helps. Ba-bye