Is Being Gay A Bad Thing?

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Cora Armstead answered
I think that there is not one problem being gay. My uncle is gay and he is the best guy to hang around with. I think gay people have that unique factor that makes them special. Beside (if you believe in God) God made them that way and they were obviously made that way for a purpose. If he is a real friend, ignore what other think, LET THEM THINK ALL THEY WANT!!
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being gay is not bad everyone is different no one is perfect i have seen people who make fun of gay people and it doesn't make them any better.Theres no problem.

No I'm not gay if i answer to this!!!
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People are morons most of the time, and scared of the unknown or things they don't understand. People who think bein gay is 'wrong' are just insecure bout their own short commings and projecting this like all uneducated halfwits do.
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People think that being gay is a bad thing because of their religion. People in my own religion [Christianity] condemn it because of some [probably misinterpreted, I don't know] Scripture or because it's simply unnatural [the 'It's Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve' debates]. I live by the belief that Jesus himself never said anything against gays, homosexuality and its practices, as well as my belief of never judging someone because of something like homosexuality even though they are all-around nice people. A person's sexual orientation should not dictate a person's capabilities, a person's talents, a person's worth. If there are as much good gay men as there are straight men, then why not accept them? God told us not to judge because He's the one who will. That's why homosexual-flaming and self-righteous bigotry won't help anyone. Don't be prejudiced because of society and their misunderstandings.
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No its not a bad thing... Its a life choice my friends dad is gay and has a partner and it just their personal choice. The best life lived is a happy one..... So do what makes you happy, you only got one life to live. And seriously if you pull in religion into saying its a bad thing thats your choice, but the bible is a great thing don't get me wrong. Its just its a good thing to follow but at the same time it has its moments of hypocrisy. Like how everyone is made for a reason but then if they are gay they go to hell? Well it also says God forgives. Or how uncirced people go to hell but then its not there choice since they are only days old so there parents determine there fate? No thats stupid I'm sorry but it is. The point of having life is to live it and to live it to the most you have to be happy. Any person saying being gay is a bad thing is just a closed minded person who needs to grow up. All this is stupid there is no bad in it at all
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I think people are just discriminating gay people for some dumb reason ! Some people say its because god create you a guy you should act that way and not the other way around like its a big sin but you mean that killing people is not as bad as being disrespectful 2 god ! I think everybody in life have their own choice if the person choose to be gay that do mean that they automatically a bad person or someone for you 2 make fun of .so I think you should stay friends with him at the end of the day you are the one with the last decision so make it wisely and listen 2 yourself not what your Friends say !!
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Being gay is not a bad thing or shouldn't. I think that people who are gay should be able to doas the free with others. Like me I liked tonof bos and I'm 13 so school is hard for those who already know there gay   I say that it is not a bad thing and wish you luck in future endevours and please don't WORRY
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It's funny how the ones who say being gay/bi/lesbian is a bad thing are the ones who can't make coherent statements.

Just a caddy observation :p
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To some people it is and to some people it isn't, to me it doesnt really matter if your gay or not it just matter's if your a good person or not
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Hey you know what I thin being gay is awesome because I am and I'm proud to be gay and noone can't take tht away from me
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I'm gay, and I feel just fine with that. I'm a girl. So, you'd probably classify it as lesbian. ;) Anyways, it's just fine to be gay! It's not like it's any different from boy girl relationships! Is it REALLY?! So WHAT!? You can't have children! I'd love to have kids with her, but since it really isn't possible, we'll either adopt or not have any. It's NOT bad! And, yes, butt plugging is quite gross. :P BTW, her and I aren't having #@$%& because if you can't have kids, what's the use?
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ste greenall answered
Its ok to be gay because people are who they are and no one should put people down gays are only the same has everyone else but like the same sex and theres nothing wrong with that  and I think  your friends are being stupid saying being gay is bad because your friends most not be able accept people and thats bad lol anyway I hoped I helped :) ste :)
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Roxana navar answered
Love them to death! Don't base your opinion on others! It isn't bad to be gay, lesbian, or bi. That's my opinion! I disagree with 'michalya', just because you can't have kids doesn't mean its bad to be gay!! Gay people know they can't have kids and they are perfectly fine with it!!
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Anonymous answered
What do you think? Its a matter of opinion and this being america we are entitled to our own opinions. I happen to think gay people are just grand, does this mean I want to go around smiting religious fundies with a tazer on a stick? Well yes, but goodness knows this being america it's wrong for me to impose my opinion on them so I'm not going too, no matter how much they would want to control how others live their lives.
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I'm gay and I thnk it is because people see us as some thing bad but you no what it is no differint then 50 70 years ago a lot of people did not like blacks or when worman did not have rights so I think thing will get better
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Being gay is simply how you are made.  Accept and love yourself first.  Other people will make it hard to be yourself but they are the bad folks in this scenario.
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No I'm gay and proud I'm 11 and think I'm gay the best part is my friend are ok with it. I think people should love whoever that like end of story.
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May'C Bonjovie answered
I do not consider it sick and nasty, but most of my religious followers of Christ will not agree...to me it is a matter of opinion:)
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Ole Bendz answered
Someones sexuality doesn't define them as a person, it only defines the gender of a person they will fancy / love. Tbh, what would be disgusting about it? M/M and F/F love, that is just as beautiful as M/F love.
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The answer:
We will never know if being gay is a good or bad thing. Granted it is different but there are a few reasons why people are saying it isn't.
#1: The Bible.
In the bible it says many things such as : It is an abomination and such. However, people have yet to remember the bible was changed over the course of thousands of years. Do you really think one book of "the word of god" was passed on without any changes? No. King James and his era added and subtracted a few things. The old and NEW testament were changed, and the list goes on. So the REAL AND TRUE word of God isn't all what we think it is in the Bible. Of course people are going to change a few things here and there. For all we know what God REALLY wanted was to have us all live in peace despite some sexuality changes. But of course we don't know that. But I am stating the FACTS.
#2:  Thousands of years of man and woman.
Since it's been 89%  men and women people have grown used to the idea that men and women should be together. To be betrothed, married, kids, happy lifestyle. Generations of men and women being together havent really changed, it is likely the following generation will do the same and teach their children about how men and women should be together. But no one has ever told their kids that the SAME gender was a good thing too. Just because thats "the way it is." Is it the way it is? Again, we don't know. Its almost as if men and women being together were a habit. A familiar way of things.
#3:  The behavior of the "gays and lesbians"
Think of it as vice versa. Lesbians act manly with the the men's clothes. Lesbians act girly with the sparkle makeup and tight clothing. People found it strange, bizarre, and weird that they were acting this way and found it almost offensive due to their "own experiences."  So they pretty much called them abominations, tortured them, and took their right to get married.
Forgetting their still human beings, many privileges and events shunned them.

So, overall, we don't know if being gay is right or not. Its only a matter of opinions and not facts that people get worked up over
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april flem answered
No, different strokes for different folks. If it ain't you don't worry about it, if it is you and you are happy then don't let your mind get twisted by people. You know what's best for you just as everyone else knows what's best for them.
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Akami Lioncourt answered
Well I'm Bisexual and I mean some people find it disgusting but in my opinion if it makes a person happy then so be it. So, no it's not disgusting unless you are a judgemental person.

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