yes you can stop doing things that gay people do with
the same sex if you want to get rid of being gay
that tell me you were just following other people
deep down inside you knew that was wrong so now you want to stop
go to God and ask for his forgiveness and he will turn you whole life
around and put you on the right track
Yes. You r a human. The species above all. It's your will change the world. Don't let the world to change your will. If you want to do it, go ahead. Do it. Do change your self. Yes you can!
Do not give up and fight it with all your might make sure to use every ounce of will power
Yeah you can be whatever you want to be if you really try! You just got to see whats right and whats wrong!
Yes you can! You don't always choose who you fall in love with but you can choose what you do with that emotion.
Even if you are born a certain way with a certain cultural expectation, you are also born with free-will and can choice to be or do whatever you want to.
No matter how deep a craving or a desire, you can always choose to be what ever you want to be.
So yes you can stop being gay, but you may not be able to stop the attraction!
Everybody here is giving stupid answers. You DO CHOOSE whether to be gay or not. Just think of men as friends. Show brotherly affection rather than sexual. You will come to learn that it is a much stronger bond.
Really hope this helps.
Unfortunately and in agreement with the previous answers, you can't. You are or you are not. And the question is not even why. It won't help to know why should you even find the reason(s). The question is how do you accept yourself and move on with your life and be happy as you are.
All the best to you.
He is right, you are what you are, a better question to ask is how do I tell my friends/family....but no you cannot change who you are, thts like saying can I stop being white? It just wont change. People may tell you its a sin, its not - don't worry, God wont make you in a way he can't love!
A person can't stop being gay anymore than he can stop his hair from growing out in another color. The color can be changed after it's grown, but underneath it will always be the natural color he was born with.
No. My DNA and my loving heart won't let me. Actually, I am very glad and I am glad My Creator God made me this way.
I think the answer is no. I think if you are gay or homosexual or lesbian or straight, you are likely to be this for all of your life. You may see relationships homosexual or heterosexual relationships and still find them appealing, but you are essentially what you are.
That's not to say that people don't change their mind and that gay men don't end up with women, or vice versa, for a number of reasons, but I would question why you would want to?
A lot of deeply religious people who find that they are gay curse themselves, I could not be part of any religious group that wouldn't accept everyone, regardless of the lessons of their books of faith.
Some people actually try to 'retrain' people to be straight. I suppose with enough conditioning, you can be taught to think that up is down and left is right, but that doesn't make it right or true.
You are what you are... end of story.
There must have been a reason that you even asked this question. I have known people who are gay but wanted to live a heterosexual life style for reasons I won't share on this public forum. This person did get married and after a while he couldn't out run his true identity, he was gay, he did end up having gay affairs and ultimately divorcing his wife. If you ask me I say maintain your true identity and try not to bring others into what you think you may want to be. Or make a decision and stay with that one way or the other because too many innocent people get hurt badly by a decision that wasn't truly a decision that should have been made.
You really can't stop being gay.
Church groups have programs and camps where they try to teach you how to be straight and come to the lord, but most of the people who go to those camps commit suicide. That's how I know that we gays are right and the bigot christians are very wrong.
They and fred phelps can go sow their seeds of hate elsewhere.
This is a question that is trying to be answered by many.
You can't "get rid of gay." someone either is or isn't. There is no changing it.
Erm I don't know if you can because you will always have feeling for men if you did before but it could of been your hormones before you thought you was gay lol you could be bi if you like both
Well I was taught that being straight was the best policy but I think I'm a bisexual girls so be you r don't let nobody stop you love all the 17 year old bisexuals yall make me believe its ok.
It is true that its always going to be with you.. But, you should try to move on and find some guy that wont care about if you were gay. And if you want to get rid of it you really can't.. But, if your asking because of other people (or friends) just ignore them! Or they're not really your friend..
As blunt as she is, Celticgirl is also right. Being gay isn't a choice. I think the question should rather be, why. Why do you feel so out of place with who you are? The sooner you learn to accept yourself, the sooner you can live your life to its fullest potential.
All the best!
Honestly, I don't think you can. I tried being "straight", it just didnt work. I still had feelings for guys and none for girls...so I prayed about it and in the end I'm stil who I am.
And if somone pulls reliogin in your face, just tell them its not thier choice "its mine".
Just be strong..