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How can I get my son to stop being gay?

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Roy Lovett answered

I've been very kind and kept my cool answering dumb questions like this. I don't like being mean, I'm not that kind of guy, but why would you ask something like that? You cannot get your son to stop being gay, he was born that way, nothing you say or do will change that, okeh? I honestly feel bad for your son for not having tolerant parents or at least two parents who support him, I'm not sure on your spouse. He could have kept it secret from you until you absolutely had to know.. You should feel happy he loved you and trusted you enough to tell you. This question disgusts me... I wish your son luck and I hope you will accept him someday, and provide the support he needs from you.

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It could just be a phase...a lot of people who claim they're gay/bisexual/lesbians this day and age just say it for attention and don't really mean it. It's so wrong but it's very common.

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Chewed Bubblegum commented
Stop calling me a kid, I'm 16. And why can't I have my own opinion? My own side? Why can't I just say one thing without getting bashed on for it. You have your opinion, why can't mine be accepted too?
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Chewed Bubblegum commented
I'll keep saying it, where I live, at my high school, hell I don't know why but there are a lot of younger early teen kids who act like they're something that they're not. I'm not saying that they all act like this, but I'm gonna guess 1 out of every 10 kids who claim they are gay/lesbian/bisexual aren't. They do it for attention. I've known 20 over the years, but those were close friends, I see it though with other people. If you are truly gay/lesbian/bisexual, you act like you are from birth practically. You can tell kids are from young age if they are or not, unfortunately some kids out of nowhere act like they are for attention (again not all but some) It might not be for attention, though, they could be doing it to fit in or try and "experiment," but again, you're born with those traits, you don't just acquire them in a blink of an eye normally.
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Chewed Bubblegum commented
I'm done, I don't think my blood pressure can handle this conversation anymore
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Chandler Howard answered

You can't, they are what they are, there's a science to being gay, it shouldn't matter anyway, there's nothing wrong with it.

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Anonymous , Helllo!! I'm gay too!, answered

I haven't been on here or social for almost two weeks... And this question was the first thing I see. You can't change your son, there is nothing wrong with him. Gay isn't a disease, he's still yours and you should love him.

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Luke Reine answered

Haha, this question is funny, you are joking, right? If you're serious, you have a lot to learn my friend! I'm bi, I lean more towards guys tho and I have a boyfriend. My mom isn't too thrilled (huge Christian) Dad is cool with it. Even tho my mom knows she can't do anything, she still loves me just the same and knows I will not change. ;p

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Sane Mori answered

You have to solve the magic equation and then, just then! It still wont work.. He'll always be gay, honey.

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sm cl answered

A fair number of people I've come into contact with have claimed homosexuality because it makes them more popular, or in their words, "it's the thing right now." This could be one scenario.

The other is that your son is actually a homosexual, and you can handle it however your culture/religion dictates. But to get him "to stop being gay," or cease finding other men attractive isn't a thing. Attraction doesn't really work like that.

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