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Are Transvestites Always Homosexual?

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Oscar De La Huerte Profile
In my opinion, being a transvestite doesn't necessarily imply homosexuality, although it wouldn't be uncommon to find gay transvestites as the two lifestyles are fairly compatible.

Are transvestites gay? One way I'd approach the question is by deciding for yourself why people choose to be transvestites in the first place.

Most men have at least contemplated the idea of putting on women's clothing at some point. Whether as a bachelor party prank, or in the form of some hipster-looking skinny jeans- the idea of dressing as a woman isn't as alien as we might think.

Historically, the idea of androgyny and gender-crossing roles is nothing new to human society, and the way we associate particular clothing trends with sexuality is subject to some debate.

For example, a man waltzing down a modern high-street in a toga might seem more 'feminine' now than it did a few thousand years ago.

Transvestites, cross-dressers, and sexuality Magnus Hershfeld, the man who coined the term 'transvestite', originally did so to describe a sexual interest in wearing women's clothing. He himself was unsatisfied with the term because he believed that wearing women's clothing was merely an outward sign of inner psychological sexuality.

Considering that the very origins of the word 'transvestite' were based on a connection with sexuality, it is easy to see why transvestitism is still associated with homosexuality today.
However, it is worth noting that during the 1970s, a sufficient number of straight transvestite males felt so strongly about the homosexual connotations of the term 'transvestite' that they decided to use the term 'cross-dresser' to distinguish themselves.

These days, the two terms mean much the same thing and, as a result, the distinction in sexuality between the two has been blurred.
Mark Westbrook Profile
Mark Westbrook answered
No. Transvestitism has nothing to do with being a homosexual, this is a common error. Transvestitism is about being more comfortable dressing as a woman than as a man.
If we take the comedian Eddie Izzard, he describes himself as a male tomboy. It's nothing to do with his sexuality, he just likes make up and eye liner. Enjoying dressing as the opposite sex is about filling a gap within oneself that is not a sexual fulfilment.

Far more drag queens are homosexuals, but this does not mean that all drag queens are homosexuals either. The problem with this kind of question is that it seeks to narrowly define human behaviour into a neat category, and that is rarely possible, especially with human sexuality. Do men always like blondes? Do women always prefer men with muscles?

I know where you are coming from, and there is much confusion generally in this area.
Leticia Love Profile
Leticia Love answered
At one time I would agree that transvestites are not gay. But as I have got older I have found that I spend more and more time as a woman and my sexual encounters are now exclusively with men. I have lost interest in being with a woman, as I have to make love to them as a man, which just isn't me.

It started by enjoying male attention when dressed as woman and then eventually led to sex. I enjoy being with a man, it feels right for me and gives me great pleasure. There is nothing like curling up in bed with a strong man and being wined and dined and given flowers. It is wonderful being with someone who wants you for what you are and you can be yourself and not pretend.

As said at the start, I never imagined that I would become gay, especially as everyone says transvestites are straight, but that is how things have turned out. I have a number of transvestite friends who also exclusively have sex with men, so it is not uncommon.

So it not clear cut, perhaps most transvestites are straight, but many are also bi or gay.
Lee Jay Profile
Lee Jay answered
Definitely not ... I am a transvestite or cross-dresser and though I have had a few guys try to flirt or make a pass, I just tell them I am not interested and move on. But I have had some girls who also flirt and make a pass and that was with my wife there and we both got a kick out of it.  So I definitely am not homosexual, though I do know a few transvestites who are, but most of us aren't, and prefer women.
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Anonymous answered
I'm a transvestite, but I have absolutely no interest in a homosexual relationship.  I'll put it this way, if a gay were to try to make a pass at me, that would be an act he would regret for the rest of his life.  Only from a woman would I accept a flirt, a pass, affection, etc.
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Kathyann Hitt answered

As a transvestite/transexual/sissy, I don't look at my self as being gay. You see since I was 6 years old I knew that I was born in the wrong body. That I should have been born a girl. After much indecision on my part I talked to my older sister just how I felt. She helped me out a lot, until it got to the point where we both went to our step-mother to tell her how I felt. Mom was only to happy to have another daughter. It was under our mother's and my sister's training that I progressed to having sex with men. After all as they both pointed out to me, since I felt and knew that I was born in the wrong body, and, since they both & my physician included were treating me as a female - then it was natural for me to have sex with a man. My mother & sister were very thrilled on the day of my 16th birthday that they both got to watch (to make it official) my de-flowering.

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