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Will Me And My Child's Father Ever Get Back Together And Reconcile?

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marquita stokes answered
No, as long as you keep giving it up, its not going to happen. He will be content with how things are. Why buy tthe cow when he can get the milk for free....I know its hard..but you got to cut it off or you will never get back with him, if thats truly is what you want...
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Unfortunately that is something which nobody but you and the father of your child can know. We know nothing about your situation but generally when two people separate there is usually a good reason for it and whilst you may still have feelings for the father of your child, there must be a reason why you are still not with him now.

As painful as it is, it may be better to simply stay friends with him for now. Think about your child. If you were to get back with their father, would it be a happy relationship? Is there a chance that you could split up again and things could go horribly wrong? You cannot only think about yourself now, you have to think about your child and how they would feel if they lived in a home where there were constant arguments.

If of course you get on exceptionally well with the father then there may be a chance. The only way that you can truly find out is by talking to him about how you feel and about talking everything through.
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Yes I am going through that with my sons father everything started out good but he moved 70 miles away last year to start a new job.I found out a month ago he has been cheating and living with another women down there.I confronted her and she would not give me no information all she said was he come by sometimes I havent head from him in two weeks what sould I do
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Well, a very difficult question for starters?  Me and my child's father split up when he was 2years old, currently he is 4years.  It all started when I was drinking a lot and he was also drinking and doing his stuff,then later on I stopped drinking for my child's sake, but still the hate was there for his father not doing right towards us.  We fight a lot with mean words and that was where the separation came in, the hate started to grow very wildly, so much so that when I saw him in the neighbourhood, I felt like doing something to him.  A year has passed and I started forgiving him in my own way, but still didn't talk to him. Now I'm having this regrets that makes me feel sometimes of giving up hope.  It came so that we got to talk with each other and he did asked me if he would've asked me to take him back would I do so, I didn't have a answer because it was all so sudden and I didn't came to answer him.  I'm so scared that it could be late for us, but I still love him no doubt about that and I do want him back, I think we will be able to back together if I could just stop stressing so much and yes reconciliation is no quest about it.
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The father of my two children just recently left us for another woman I found out 2 wks before I went to have our son the girl he was cheating on me with was pregnant the eventually he left after our son was 2 months old. He is now staying with her at her mom's will he ever leave her alone and come back home?
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It depends on your royalty, if you feel that you are guilty of the problem then go and seek his face and if he persist tell him that you are sorry and remind him that he is the father of your children and promise him that the matter will not come up again with this you will be together because there were love between you, he will remember
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I've been with my childs father for 5 years he left me when I I about 3 months pregnant but we were still seeing eachother sexually. Now my daughter is here and we have only been with eachother sexually still its like friends that sleep together, will I ever get back together with him as a real couple ?
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Me and my babies father just broke up lastnite over a lil tiny argument we had we always have stupid fights I'm constantly naggin him to help with the kids and he always says well I work so he don't help me at all I'm 19 I sit in the house everyday with a 20month old and a 6month old I have no help from anyone my parents nor his parents even help babysittin or nethng I want a job but I don't got my license nor a car to drive to work what can ido do you think he will get back with me we do fight a lot
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Tariq Habib answered
Family relations are very critical and sometimes it becomes very difficult to keep them smooth and intact. The relations of husband and wife are very sensitive and both the parties have to sacrifice a lot to keep these relations run in a smooth and nice manner. Now we come to your question that will my child's father and me ever get back together and reconcile can be explained like this.

It means you are having some sort of dispute and trouble with your husband and you both are forced to live separately. First of all try to find out the exact problem and trouble going on with your husband and you and then calmly think over how to eradicate it. I am sure if you will remove that problem, which is the main cause of trouble between you and your husband, things will become better and go towards right direction. Then only you and your child's father will get back together and reconcile and start passing a happy life once again. I hope this will satisfy your question.
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I'm going through the same thing.... We talk almost every day but he lives like 55 miles away and goes to college plus he is younger then me... But I guess when your in this kind of situation you can only take it day by day.. I know that I can only do show much then its all up to him... I love him he knows that so just let his know that but don't ever put yourself last
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My baby's dad broke off our engagement when I was 5 1/2 months pregnant, saying that he just wanted to be alone. Then I found out that he had been seeing one of his coworkers for a few weeks prior. Now I'm about to have his baby and I found out that hes been seeing a girl who I considered to be one of my best friends. I'm still living in his house because I have nowhere to go, but I still love him. Could it ever work?

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