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When Should You Have Your First Kiss?

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Muddassar Memon answered
The first kiss is perhaps the only memory that most people remember the rest of their lives. It is perhaps best to go with the flow and not push your luck too much. Try to avoid kissing the person on the first date itself; a peck on the cheek should be sufficient while saying good bye. Many believe the best time for a first kiss is the end of the second date when returning your date home or being returned home. The feel of the experience and the personal chemistry you feel with your date should be a sufficient gauge to measure if the time is right. So if your gut tells you not to make the move even on the second date then follow your gut.
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Katie
Katie commented
You should definitely go with your gut feeling. And waiting until the second date makes sense so you know if you really like the person.
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Im 14 turning fifteen and i am freaking out cause me and this guy that i have known for a really long time just started like liking eachother and we email eachother everyday and we text and everytime we see eachother we can never talk alone cuase if we do ill get shot by my parents or somthing (im not allowed to date). A while ago he asked me to kiss him but i said no cause im not ready (and we were texting) but now i real really really really want to but i dont know what to do!!!!!! HELP ME!!
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awsome helper commented
Soulds lame just ask him and if he see why not before tell him you weren't ready.
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I'm 12 now and I had my first real kiss today my boyfriend asked me on facebook so I said I would kiss him we had been in a relationship for about 5month so id been up all night thinking about it, I was looking on internet to see what to do but in the end I got to kiss the man of my dreams he must be the best kisser ever.He kissed my cheek then lips and hold my hips I shut my eyes and told him I loved him
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WHEN YOU FEEL YOU ARE READY, thats it!!!!! People put to much "emphasis" on the first kiss. Whenever you get with someone new you have a first kiss and the first kiss you ever have is in reality the same(its just the first person you happened to kiss ever for whatever reason). The exception to this is when you meet someone who you share a "passionate" attraction to and have something "special" with. That person may be the first person you meet(in which case the "first kiss" would be significant) or someone you meet later in life. Some people live in the "fairytale mindset" in which they believe their going to meet someone, fall in love, have a passionate first kiss, get married and live happily ever after with nothing bad happening at all. This, of course, never happens except in a very, very, very, very, very small number of cases. In reality your going to meet lots of people; some you'll find an intimate attraction to, some just a sexual attraction(physical nature only), and others will be just friends. Some may start in one "category" and move to another, while others will just stay in the same 'category." In reality you can kiss anyone and have sex with anyone and not have in mean anything(either at that time or later on down the road) [Theres not someone out there for everyone and some may have more than one] but in the end to answer your question -WHEN SHOULD YOU HAVE YOUR FIRST KISS- the is and only is simply -WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE IT-. Only you can decide that no one else. It may end up to be "the one" or not but only time will tell.                                                                                                                                                                                                                  PEACE EVERLASTING
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Samantha Brown answered
Whenever you feel ready to have it. :D It usually doesn't happen until your at least 11 or 12 because, younger kids don't like the opposite sex thinking they have "cooties". I had mine at 12. Being that young though, it doesn't really matter as long as it doesn't lead to anything more than kissing if you know what I mean.
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Anonymous answered
When you know they are that special someone and you know you can trust that person completely with what your about to do. And DO NOT do it out of pressure or because every body else has they just did it out of pressure plus they probably didn't TRUELY LOVE that someone you need to know you love this person enough to do this and well make sure you know they want to also don't just go for it they may not be ready they may want to wait till the perfect moment  is there.
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Anonymous answered
When it feels natural to you. That you don't feel rushed or pushed. Let it happen when you want it to! I had my first kiss when I was 12. I'm 16 now and have a boyfriend of one year and weve already had sex so I'm not sure what age to tell you to have a first kiss. Just make sure it feels like the right thing to do:) hope this helped... Good luck
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Anonymous answered
11-13
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Anonymous answered
I am 11 years old and I still haven't had a first kiss. If I were you, I would wait until high school for that first kiss. But if you want to start at age 11 or 12. It's not like no one will kiss you ever.
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Emmy garlock answered
When your ready and feel responcible enogh to your move your life but the best age is probaly 11
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Anonymous answered
I had my first kiss when I was only 10 but it wasn't like a "real" kiss. Plus I'm only 12 now! Haha!!!!
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Rebecca Parks answered
14 or 15 is the perfect time
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Im 14 turning fifteen and i am freaking out cause i me and this guy that i have known for a really long time just started like liking eachother and we email eachother everyday and we text and everytime we see eachother we can never talk alone cuase if we do ill get shot by my parents or somthing (im not allowed to date). A while ago he asked me to kiss him but i said no cause im not ready (and we were texting) but now i real really really really want to but i dont know what to do!!!!!! HELP ME!!

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