Why Do (some) Men Change And Become Lazy After They Get Married?

Not all men do change and become lazy after marriage. Some women also do this.

One of the reasons a lot of people change after marrige is that they think they 'have' the person they wanted to marry and that they don't have to put any effort into trying anymore.
This is a big mistake as the partners can loose interst in and respect for each other.

Before marriage people tend to put more effort into pleasing their partner in order to keep them interested and when they marry they become lazy in this respect.

With marriage comes more financal responsibilities and children can put strains on a relationship.

If the man is the only wage earner perhaps he's fed up with his job and carries this feeling home with him. The same can be true for the woman if she's the main wage earner.Many men don't share housework equally with their partners.

If your husband has become lazy after you married tell him how you feel. Be honest with him and tell him that you feel he's not the man you knew before marriage. You could try doing less yourself and asking him ( really this is telling him put nicely) to do more to help as it's not fair that you should to everything. Try and put a bit of excitement into your marriage.

No one has to tolerate a lazy partner these days.

I'm very glad that this helped you.
I'm sorry that you feel lonely. If you're new to the country do you think that it might help you if you try to get a job or join some clubs so that you can make some friends. Your both probably feeling a bit strange in  a new environment and it's particularly lonely for you.
Problems do get bigger if you're at home all day and it sounds as though you're both going though a lot of changes just now.
Do try and get out and about and meet some new people or invite someone in for a chat. Once you feel better your husband might feel better too. Maybe a temporary, part-time job or some voluntary work will help you get out of the way you're feeling and you'd have other people to talk to.
Very best of luck to you.

All men don't become lazy but yes, some men do. I guess because of the fact they put all their dependence on their wife and just feel like they don't have to contribute in any way. That's a typical man for you. Men become unpredictable after marriage. They're hard to figure out. Laziness becomes a habit for them and before you know it they're in this hole they don't want to come out of.