I am 34 he is 46 I am enagaged don’t think he values me in his life he just want to have kids with me. His priority is his mom and sis (36) and his step daughter 35 and her kids my ; I love him not sure what to do?

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Willie B. good answered

Here's what you do...... Break off that engagement before it's too late, YOU should be his first priority not his mom, sister or step daughter.

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Sandy Kasey
Sandy Kasey commented
Thank you will try. Easier said than done. I wish I can just walk out; but I love this guy.
Willie B. good
Willie B. good commented
Good luck!!! because you're going to need it if you're willing to take his crap.
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Yin And Yang answered

You just described one big ol' huge orgie (figuratively speaking) if you stay with him. I hate to be blunt but that is way too many people to put above the woman he supposedly loves. Please DON'T have kids with this mamas boy!

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Sandy, it seems this guy may have a heart and thats probably what you have seen in him all these years. But his priorities are skewed. They are off for sure! I think he is living in a fantasy lala land. But enough about him... what about you my friend? My question is why are you so into this older man... 12 year age difference is quite a bit. Especially when you are not 18 or 24.... you are 34. I'm not putting you down at all... what I mean is your not of the age where you are naive or looking to "fit in" anymore. Are you lonely? Do you have any children? Are you looking for a family? Is this a daddy issue thing? Was there a thrill in the beginning but now you feel stuck kind of like you put in 4 years of your life and you wish you were further along with this relationship? It must be tiring especially the not knowing everyday. I am so sorry.
Sandy Kasey
Sandy Kasey commented
I do not have kids I jus fell head over heels with him cause he is a very nice guy; ya it’s prob coz I did not want to start dating again( I thought this is the one for me) but I started realizing that he has his other priorities first. Than it comes to me. I am not afraid to be alone: I just do not want to get out of this reflatioship and feel like I should have jus been with him. I know I am smarter than this lol but just nit using my mind I a very attached to him. Thank you for taking the time of your day to read through something that I have been battling for ever.
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
You are very welcome. I wish you the best. Remember this.... only YOU know how much you are willing to take. Willie and I can give you advice looking from the outside in. But it ultimately boils down to you and how much you are willing to take. ☺

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