Imagine that.
His "baby momma" takes a lot from him. It's called "child support" ... And he SHOULD be providing for his kid. That's what a mature, responsible person does.
You should tell him that.
EDIT: And I would bet the reason she didn't finish high school is because he got her pregnant. Even more reason for her to take a lot from him.
You can't ease his mind you've said it yourself he's insecure! His first obligation should be to his child and it's mother. You need to think twice about getting into this situation, his insecurity is going to affect your whole relationship with him, he's always going to suspect you of wanting to leave him, always going to be jealous of other men you know.
Is this the sort of man you want to spend your time with?
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