My sister hates me. All she ever does is pick on me and argue with me. She even threatens to steal my stuff. She always says she's the favorite child. She calls me names. I never did anything to her! She's just such a bitch and I wanna slap her?

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Yin And Yang answered

Wow YOU sound like the b*tch to me! You wanna slap her really!?!? You know what, I would DO anything to hug my sisters again just one more time! How are you gonna feel if you wake up one day and God forbid your sister is dead! And don't say it will never happen because it DOES! Now go give her a hug and tell her you love her! I bet you anything your being nice will CHANGE the dynamics of the relationship!

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Breanna Monroe
Breanna Monroe commented
Going up to her and hugging her isn't gonna work. She'd just push me away and laugh. I'm not a bitch, she just gets on my nerves and I can't take it anymore.
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Breanna, now that sounds more honest. I am so sorry you are going through this. I do recall my teen days when I just wanted a little space. (I am a year and a half older then my first sister who passed away.) Everyone thought we were twins cuz we did everything together. She was my little shadow. I miss that now. Even if you never have to bury a sister (and i hope you never do) there will come a time when you guys are adults that you will probably be able to be friends. This is just a season in your life. When she gets on your nerves and you can't take it anymore, can you take a walk? Or journal? Or talk to your mom or dad? Can you get on blurtit and escape for awhile? We can be a bunch of goof balls and maybe we can get you to laugh? :0)
Hang in there. Life DOES get better!!!! :0)
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PJ Stein answered

Welcome to sibling rivalry in the teen years. Just ignore her and move on. Eventually you will work everything out and become good friends.

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Cookie Roma answered

Where are your parents?

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Walt O'Reagun answered

Just tell her this:

"Well, if you WERE the favorite child, you wouldn't feel the need to threaten me.  So you must think *I* am the favorite child, and feel jealous and resentful.  I'm sorry you feel that way.  But don't worry.  I love you as only a sister can, and you'll always be special to me."

Then just walk away.

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Pepper pot answered

Don't get pulled in to it or you are letting her control you and why should she have the power to upset you? Buy a lock for your bedroom door, or wardrobe. I had the same problems with mine, I really didn't like her at all, and although we got on a lot better as adults and when she had children, she hasn't really changed, she is still a liar and incredibly manipulative, but believe me, it catches up with them eventually.

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Barb Cala answered

Why don't you talk to your parents about this.  Not sure how old you are, but I'm sure they're aware of the problems between the two of you. They should help to mediate this.  Keep in mind though .. It sounds like your sister might be a bit threatened by you if she tells you all of that.  She might just think you're the favorite ... Sounds that way to me.

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Jaimie JT answered

When my sister and I were kids she used to chase  me around with a vacuum cleaner and threaten to beat me with it.. And I blackmailed her into doing  all of my chores for an entire summer... We get along really well  now though and I'm very greatful to have her  ...just wait it gets better....

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