Why do people assume that im gay?


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Jason Lamb Profile
Jason Lamb answered
I agree with the person at the top. It has nothing to do with the way you act, walk, dress, or talk. If your attracted to men then you're gay if not then you're not. You know who you are so don't let others define you. It really makes me upset that people judge based on what they see and not what they know.
Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
Then youre doing something thats making them think you are.  Maybe by the way you present yourself, the way you talk, something is making them think this way so do some self checking
Lee Jay Profile
Lee Jay answered
Either because you are or you have mannerisms that most people associate with someone who is gay.  If you are happy being you, that is what is most important and I wouldn't worry about it.
Adila Adila Profile
Adila Adila answered
Maybe the way you speak, walk, dress, the way you do things can all make one think that you are gay, but to be honest being gay is actually when you are attracted to the same sex, it has nothing to do with "similarities to a girl" or anything, so thats all BS that people come out with, the next time I hear someone calling another person gay because they speak and talk like a girl, I swear I'll shoot his penis off. They are obviously uneducated, the definition of gay is what I said above , just because you do things a bit feminine doesn't mean your gay it just means you're different and you are a bit more feminine than other guys, which isn't a bad trait to have, just these fools are so judgmental these days, they only look for perfection but then date a drug addict, now isn't that perfect? Now if you don't want people to think you're gay and it really bothers you then just get a bit more masculine, but otherwise don't change yourself just because people don't like it, thats their problem and not yours! They want to be judgmental stuck in their foolish world then let them be, because seriously men these days, they act like girls anyway, so I wouldnt worry about it, you see these guys that call you "gay" just look at them, with their girly shoes, have you seen them? Those style deck shoes? That's really feminine to me and looks like girls shoes and all these guys are wearing them, and they wear these colourful scarfs, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that but if they are going to judge you then they should look at themself first. Sorry about all my rant, I can't stand highly judgmental people and yes I can proudly say I'm really not that judgmental as people think, I always give you a second chance.

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