Hey girly! I'm 17 and I'm dating the pastor's son from my church who is a little over a year older than me and I have to say that I love it! It is so nice having somebody who shares the same values that I do and to have somebody there to encourage me in my relationship with Christ! We've been dating for almost a year now and I can definitely see God in our relationship through just little coincidences. I feel that God brought us together and wants us to be dating because everything has really worked out. The main thing to keep in mind is to keep God at the center of your relationship. Make sure you honor him through your actions, and if you do that, He will work the rest out. Keep your mind open to who God will bring into your life, and whoever He does bring in to your life, it will be according to His perfect will!
So should you wait and ask or not...I would say pray about it, and if it is meant to happen, then you will know because God will put things in motion! Or if you feel comfortable with it and have gotten to know him better, then go for it! I liked the pastor's son for a while and when he came over to talk to me the first time, I was very shy and quiet (but I still liked him!). He later said he felt the urge to come talk to me for some reason, not knowing what it was at the time. Now, we're definitely in agreement that it was God speaking to Him!
My boyfriend is sweet, extremely cute, so loving, and is very encouraging. He is slow to anger and is very supportive! The one thing that I like is that He shares the same values that I do, but he is also very much a person beyond your typical idea of a pastor's kid! Whoever God does bring into your life, whether it is this boy or not, know that God has perfect plans for the both of you and it will be amazing! God Bless!!!
So should you wait and ask or not...I would say pray about it, and if it is meant to happen, then you will know because God will put things in motion! Or if you feel comfortable with it and have gotten to know him better, then go for it! I liked the pastor's son for a while and when he came over to talk to me the first time, I was very shy and quiet (but I still liked him!). He later said he felt the urge to come talk to me for some reason, not knowing what it was at the time. Now, we're definitely in agreement that it was God speaking to Him!
My boyfriend is sweet, extremely cute, so loving, and is very encouraging. He is slow to anger and is very supportive! The one thing that I like is that He shares the same values that I do, but he is also very much a person beyond your typical idea of a pastor's kid! Whoever God does bring into your life, whether it is this boy or not, know that God has perfect plans for the both of you and it will be amazing! God Bless!!!