My boyfriend is getting married to his ex girlfriend under societal obligations which are difficult to describe.but he still loves me and wants to keep in touch with me.i still love him and really want him in my life,m so confused and depressed?
Well their marriage might not even work because he doesnt rele love her...he loves you...I get tht there is obligations but he doesnt have to be married if he doesnt love her...he could still be in her life nd be with you
The Truth is this guy is marrying someone else. There are no buts, ifs or maybes so the BEST thing that you can do is Let Go. You will be miserable if you continue down this road. I'm sorry to tell you this and I am not wanting to be rude or anything like that; but, life has dealt you a blow. Now pick up the pieces and end it with this guy cause the relationship will only be fruitless and then you will be pulled into HIS drama and HIS child deserves 2 parents who love the baby with NO outside distractions. Raising a child is hard enough and the child did NOTHING wrong.You will find another person and when you do, you will look back and be happy that you dismissed that relationship. Just be Strong NOW and the future will be brighter. Remember to do all things good for yourself. Good luck!!
Time to let him go. If he truely loved you, he could never marry and be with anyone BUT you. "Social obligation" makes no sense. His family's honor does not hinge on him marrying someone he isn't in love with, and he should speak to them about this myth. What he SAYS is I love you but I am marrying her. Doesn't make much sense to me.
Remind him that his marriage to that ex girlfriend will never make him happy because the only thing he wants is you. Ask him "With who do you want to spend the rest of your live?". Remind him that he's got to be careful to make that decision because he doesn't want to regret it for the rest of his life.