I am 13 and am 1 year away from highschool and i like humping pillows i just think it is really bad to have this problem because what if i get a boyfriend in highschool and tell him what i am doing wont he break up wit me is someone goin through this?

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Charlotte Adams answered
You're normal, dear. I did the same thing until about my second year of high school. You're young, but you've already hit puberty (I suppose), and your body may be giving you sexual signals, and humping pillows is just your way of handling the sexual impulses. Which, I will say, is a lot better than going out and having sex at your age, which can have many bad consequences. This will pass as you get older, but if it does not, and it bothers you, you could consider getting counseling from your doctor or other health care professional.
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Charlotte Adams
Charlotte Adams commented
No problem. People like to be judgemental on things they don't understand, but since I've been through it, and also have an extensive education in the medical and psychology field, I understand many things that others do not. Sometimes the most serious questions are the ones people like to make jokes of, such as gay rights and child abuse. You would be amazed at the things I have seen people say about abused children and gays because they don't want to learn about the subject and understand it.
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Arthur Wright commented
I have more degrees in Psych than you do but was just trying to make light of a serious subject and I do understand and probably have dealt with more child abuse but you obvious have me beat with the gay community, no offense gay movement
Charlotte Adams
Charlotte Adams commented
Arthur, I was just making a point that hurtful comments do more damamge than good, and are usually taken seriously when someone is having a problem. How do you know you have dealt more with child abuse than I have? I will agree with you on the degrees part because I do not have as many as you do, but you have no idea who I am, nor what I've been through in my life, so how can you think you know so much about me?
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Adrian Masters answered
Humping your pillow may not be the best thing in the world, but surprise, you are normal. A word of advice. Don't tell your friends or boyfriends and no one will know. Somethings in life are best kept to yourself. Tell friends and one day they will be upset with you and tell everyone right in front of you just to get back at you. Remember the golden rule. Silence is golden.
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Lauren Hill answered
Honestly I have heard of much more complicated sinerios. You my dear are in the clear. And when you getta BF then what he doesnt know wont hurt him. Well in the area becasue your just going into Highschool Right? Plus, HAIL THE ALL MIGHTY HORMONES! You are as normal as you need to be, and you don't need to be anything else!
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Anonymous answered
Just hormones hun don't worry about it

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