If you can have patience, you may win him over. Remember that pressure more often brings negative results. Most of the time if a guy really wants you, he will make a move if he thinks he is loosing you. I have to say that it is not always true. I got caught by a girl who came after me with honesty and a bit of patience.
I have a boyfriend but he's always so guarded. I don't know what to do. I care about him and I just want him to open up to me. We've been dating for four months. What do i do?
Can't teach an old dog new tricks..... If he is emotionally baron then ditch him, because he isn't going to turn into Dr. Phil
Have you tried talking to him about it, or even mentioning it? Maybe if he is so guarded he may just be scared to open up, so encouragement is probably all he needs to feel secure.