I love my boyfriend and we have been dating for 5 months but there's this really hot exchange student and I'm really attracted to him, and he's leaving in less than a month. What should I do?


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Cyber Tooth Tiger Profile

You love your boyfriend, so why should the exchange student matter?Just because a guy's hot doesn't mean he is anything to you, he most likely has many other girls feel the same about him, and you can't love your boyfriend if you have eyes for another guy. Then that means you are lusting for that other guy...

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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

There is a song and its has a phrase, "It's not having what you want but wanting what you have"  that really applies here.  Why ruin what you have for some "hot" stud if he isn't going to be around very long anyhow>  Not worth risking your BF, and also there is no guarantee that this stud will like you  so stay with what you have as there will be many other hot studs throughout your life

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Frederick Fisk answered

Don't give in to your hormones. It's a mating signal and nothing more. And you most probably don't exactly want to "mate". Stick with the one you love and keep the drama away. :)

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