How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Put His Arm Around Me With Out Directly Asking Him?

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ashley Derkowski Profile
Tell him that your cold, and usually he will just do it by himself. If he doesn't then get a little closer to him and lean on his shoulder or arm, then he should feel bad and wrap his arm around you.
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Anonymous answered
Scoot close to him and tell him that your cold or act like something is wrong and he will feel bad for you and put his arm around you it worked with my boyfriend in school
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This has happened to me. You might want to lean against his shoulder. It depends how deeply he feels for you. You can show him that you don't mind. Even ask him. When he knows you like it, he'll do it more often.
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Try by pretending to be tired or cold. Then, lay your head down on his shoulder. He will then (hopefully) put his arm around you.
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Johanna answered
Hmmm... Thats a different one.. I would just get really close probably and put your arm around him. If he doesn't do it. Than I suggest just directly asking him :)
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Bruce Dahl
Bruce Dahl commented
I am a guy, my family wasn't a touchy feelly type family so when it came to girlfriends it didn't feel natural but, I wanted to be more passionate it just takes a little getting used to. So just keep hugging and kissing him and he will become more comfortable with the closeness and you will have accomplished something no one eles has and he will love you forever because of the awkwardness he has felt his entire life, good luck!
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Canice Uche answered
By experience,when my lady gives me such a gaze,smiled and sigh while coming directly towards me,wearing such a smile:then definitely,she needs a warmth huge 4rm me.
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Anonymous answered
I totally agree, I mean he's only done it 2 times in our whole relashionship! But still I think he gives me lots of signs for different things really but it feels really cool knowing that he does want to but he's a bit shy! Lol!^_^
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Say if you are on a bus and you are tired just put your head near his shoulder not on it near it and suck your thumb with your eyes closed and he may either put his head on yours or put his arm around you

IT WORKED WITH MINE LOL HEEHEE XD
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Paige Chamebrs answered
Ummmm well I say then you should cuddle with him and put your arm around him and then see if he will and if that doesn't work then I say keep doing what you're doing if it works
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Anonymous commented
I would do that,but i only see him at school.he wouldn't want to cuddle with me at school.thanks though.that would be a great thing to do if me and him are just hanging out.

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