A priest told this story about a tree and a nail to a person with a habit of saying things out of anger.. He said.. Everytime you get mad go and hammer a nail into a tree.. After awhile that tree is full of nails.. You can regret it later.. You can go out and remove all the nails.. But you can't remove the holes or the damage. yes there is forgiveness but those hurtful words still leave a scar even if it heals over. I know that even today I can remember things said to me as a child that hurt.
Anyone can forgive. All it takes is a little willpower and compassion.I think you can just try a little harder...I know it is hard , just give it a little time ... Your friend ...Bif
Just about anyone can be forgiving but its hard to say that you will forget, and not forgetting it will make it hard to say if you truly forgive.
Yes, but it will take time the only thing he/she will do is to forgive but not to forget, everytime when they argue the person that have been hurt, he/she will bring it up somewhere, that is why I say forgiving but not to forget it's not that easily you know, I have been there. Maria
Forgiving is easy, healing takes much longer, you never forget.
Say your sorry and then be really sweet and thoughtful- watch what your saying around them :)
Yes part of it will have to be because they want to be healed and then the other part will have to be you asking for forgiveness
If this person is a strong individual they will heal in time. They probably will forgive but not forget.
It's not that easy you know even if it is accidentally and you don't mean it for it really hurts alright.... Experience is a teacher... Hehehe
Well I know this really sounds crazy and all but I'm 12 yrs old and I know that sounds really crazy but I'm in love with this boy but I need your help and his name is trenton and I'm olivia am a full teenager well maybe not but me and him are like so much of best friends and I went out with him for only one day because I couldnt handle it but I still like hm