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Is Being Lesbian Wrong?

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Nicole Manion answered
Being a lesbian certainly isn't wrong, and society has moved on from the terms when it wasn't acceptable to declare yourself as a homosexual in public. Today, lesbianism is celebrated, and girls who believe that they may not be heterosexual are encouraged to embrace who they are instead of pretending to be something that they are not.

There are many charities that you can talk to for advice in telling your parents that you are a lesbian, as well as information on how to find a partner to share your life with. Such organizations include The Gay and Lesbian National Hotline, and their number is 1-888-GLNH. This number is entirely toll-free, and is open 24 hours a day so you can talk to someone in confidence who will understand the dilemmas you face.

The hotline is also excellent if you need any advice on the aspects of lesbian life, such as having safe sex and going for a safe night out. They'll be able to connect you to over 18,000 different venues for gays, lesbians and bisexuals where you can meet like-minded people, make friends and have a good time. If you haven't been happy in your current school environment, or you've suffered bullying for the way you are, there is an opportunity to put a stop to this. Afterwards, you can be yourself and enjoy individuality without thinking that the way you are is wrong.

You deserve to be confident, so make the most of the organizations out there which are looking to help people like you.
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There is no such thing as right or wrong. Some are born this way while other choose to becoming a lesbian. If God perceive lesbian and gay wrong, then why create more lesbian and gay out each days. Is just like being a black man and a white man. People look down on black man because they are black. God teach us to not judge a book by it's cover, why allow people to judge lesbian just because of who they are? Most people are conditioned to think that it is morally wrong and they cannot accept lesbians. BUT think!!! What if your best friend is a lesbian and you just found out that she is a lesbian? Are you going to say "oh you are a lesbian, you are not normal, lets break our friendship." or lets say you and a lesbian switch role. How will you feel when people look down on you just because you are being yourself? You don't respect other people culture thats why you look down on them. For lesbian and gays, I believe they just want to lead their lives as the way you want to lead your life. Just treat them as a normal person as yourself.
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V. commented
No it's not like that, its not like that at all. God has given you such a great power that people to choose to not use. It's the very power of choice. It may be hard to deny those unconscience feelings, but you need to make a conscience CHOICE to do it. Strictly to prove my point, but in no way am I equating it, it's as if a murderer claims that he was born that way, and the only reason why he didnt strike until he did was due to lack of opportunity. ITS CRAP. You have a choice. YOu always do.
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Anonymous answered
Of course being a lesbian is not wrong! Homophobia is wrong! I am a out and proud lesbian :) it's not a choice you are born like it but you just don't notice it or you block it out.. Just because people are not used to it doesn't mean it's wrong.
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paul williams answered
It is not right or wrong it is who or what you are. It doesn't affect anyone else so the rest have no business to tell you you shouldn't be like that. I absolutely believe in god but don't go to church because most people don't practice what they preach and are major hypocrites. They are who they are though. Be proud of what you are. It doesn't matter what churches think it only matter what god says and in the end I believe if you lived a descent life free of harming others and have felt sorrow for your mistakes and truly learned from them then you will be granted a seat in heaven.  so I'm sure all the religious nuts that this offends because I simply don't agree with them will have the own comments or beliefs but oh well I am entitled to mine as are they are there own. But we will see how they attack others for having different beliefs. By the way I am not gay or bi. I am happily married with children.
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Lexi answered
Not at all=)
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Anonymous answered
In my own opinion, being lesbian is relative. It is a personal choice. It's your choice to be who you are and who am. However it is important to understand that this concept has recently had wide condemnation from both the catholic and protestant church. God's purpose for sex in that particular concept seems  distorted and therefore from that point of view, lesbianism is wrong.
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Lesbianism is not a choice. Honestly, who would choose to live like that in a world where it is frowned upon by a lot of people. To say it is wrong is very arrogant. Who appointed the catholic and protestant churches the dictator of wht is wrong and right with our own lives? It is up to the individual person to decide how they feel. And if they have feelings for the same sex, then the only choice is to decide whether to act upon those feelings or to deny who and what you are.
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I'm a lesbian homophobia is wrong and what say's we have to follow a book written by other human's.... People don't need or have to follow a book I believe that lesbianism is very right and natural...... People who say it's wrong are most likely close minded or have a really strict religion me on the other hand well I'm very open minded :)
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Asia Bethea answered

Being a lesbian is not wrong.  Being a lesbian is who you are and there's no way to change that. If you do it's not going to work out.

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Anonymous answered
It is really not wrong. It is just an expression of oneself and no one can tell the right or wrong way of expressing yourself. You must be proud of what you are and you must know what you like.
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Sharmaine answered
Hell no!
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Sharmaine commented
NO! There;s nothing wrong being a Lesbian/Gay! As long as your not hurting each other or anyone else, if you love each other then go for it.
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Asia Bethea commented
Being a lesbian is hard for me because theres this boy who likes me and I can.t find the right love.
:'( :'( :'(
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Anonymous answered
Lesbianism/homosexuality is so wrong. It's a sin! Also, natures tell you what goes where and what life is meant to be. Human try to change what is right and what nature put out there. It's wrong in every way! Wake. Get healed! Ask God to come into your life and you will change.
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Lauren Klotz answered
I never thought it was wrong and stayed friends with a gay couple and one of my lesbian friends. But now I think I am and it feels so wrong

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