Yes of course it's about choices here; your choice. In some people's eyes they have a problem with it. It's not about what others want, it's what you and your girlfriend choose to do. I've been confused about my sexuality but I chose to stay with a guy. If it's what you want no-one should stand in your way. There are loads of gay/lesbian people out there, it's a free country don't let others make that decision for you.