There are a range of topics and subjects you can talk about with your boyfriend. As you are in a relationship it is essential you are open and honest with him at all times. This means that if one day you feel down, sad or depressed then share your feelings with your boyfriend. After all 'a problem shared is a problem halved'.
He should be accommodating, warm and comforting when discussing your problems or any issues you may be having, regardless of the situation or circumstance. If you have common interests, from food to the theatre, you can also talk to him regarding these topics. You should also occasionally take the opportunity to discuss family situations (parents, siblings etc) as this is an important backbone for any solid relationship. The flow of general conversation between you and your boyfriend should be natural so you should not try to force conversation accordingly.
If you have been in a long-term relationship then you and your partner should share a degree of trust, so you should feel comfortable in discussing most areas with your boyfriend. However, if you are just beginning a new relationship, personal issues and other things linked to this should be sporadically mentioned until you both get to know each other. Try to avoid intense emotional discussions - you don't want to scare off your new boyfriend.
If you never know what to talk about with your boyfriend, pretend he is one of your best girl friends. I do that all the time and there usually is never a silent moment. Tell him things you would tell your best friends or your parents. It can be awkward at times but he is your boyfriend and you should be able to tell him anything.
First of all if you and your bf don't have anything to talk about ever and it always feels awkward than he probably isn't for you. If you really want to try and make it work try talking about these topics: The news, your favorite bands, movie, books, friends (positively), websites, games, favorite memories (#1)(it helps if they are funny), family, school, TV, etc. Also if you can a great thing to do is both talk to each other on the phone but both of you turn the TV on the same channel and watch it. When something funny or interesting comes on then you can talk about it right as it happens. This is also great bonding time.
We talk about the most random things, and I will always point out that we talk about nothing, but he will say something cheesy, that he loves our conversations. So basically if he really likes you he won't mind talking about the most random things with you, as long as he is with you. Eventually once you guys do more things together you will have more things to talk about, and it will get less uncomfortable. At first it was really awkward but we hung out more and more and it got better. Don't worry everyone feels that way. (=
Just talk about stuff you guys want to do together, and how things are going between you too, how is life now that you and him or you and her are now together. What your future hold's with him or her. How is he or she feeling, how there day was. Juss in general what you too want to talk about.
I'm in the same situation.... Haha thats why I looked this stuff up.... Kinda lame, but I really like my boyfriend, who just asked me out about a week ago. I don't really know what to say around him. But the more we hang out the easier its getting.... So its really just the first few times that are hard :D
Well I always ask what my bf is thinking bout..or if he is ok..or just random ?'s like if you could choose the color of the grass what color would you choose and y?..just talk but what ever you say let it come from your heart
Sounds like you guys are getting to comfortable with your relationship. You either need to spice it up, or go do things that you can later talk about cause you have it in common now.. Maybe you do plenty to invest in the relationship and he's just bored and doesnt appreciate you just being you. And if thats the case then there are always more guys out there that will be ecstatic to just be with you.. Hang in there and if you feel like you need a change in your life then don't be afraid to just do it.. It will end up better in the end
Well first off, if you feel uncomfortable talking with your boyfriend then he probably isn't the guy for you.
If you started a relationship not knowing the guy completely then talk about things like: Where were you born? Whats your favorite thing to do in your spare time? Favorite animal?
(for more intimate questions- How far have you gotten? How far do you think you will get with me?)
If these things don't start up a conversation then you KNOW the guy is hiding something and is defiantly not the guy for you, or he is awkward to be around so end right there.
P.S. Remember to be nice, no one likes to have their feelings hurt!
We just stated going out maybe 4 days ago. Everyone says we look cute together and we both think so also. When we are together we are always with his friends or my friends so we always know what to talk about. But when we are not with our friends we never know what to say to each other if we do it is stupid.When we are together without friends all we do is sit there and txt our friends. I really like him but he dumped his ex because they never talked and I don't want that to happen to me. So what should I do? P.s his best friend says he likes me a lot and will never do that but he said the sam thing to his ex ?
My boyfriend doesn't have cell phone,internet,and email I am deaf I can't talk on phone so I want to figure out how to talk to my boyfriend?And also I am in different class than my boyfriend I really want to talk to him so how can I find a way to talk to him?Please say something back!
That's a tough one 'because we don't really know you guys. But... I'd say find out what you have in common (a favourite band, or movies or books or activities) and talk about that.
You can debate whether Bono really is a musical genius or whether he's just a walking PR campaign. Or you could talk about why Hancock is a better super hero movie than Ironman. ;-)
Yew can't just talk about things yew talk about with your friends;because most gurls and guys are more perverted when they talk to their friends.,.,.;I suggest yew talk about anything but sex.Like sports yew share or something else,,.,.such as what yew like about them and what yew did that day or what yew are going to do later,.,. But don't mention people they don't like because that will make them mad at yew or other sorts of information like sending pictures of your private bisiness,do not do that,all gurls want yew to make them feel good about themselves and all guys want yew to make plans with him.,..,. Aand hangout with him and talk to yew every moment
I feel the same way but oneday when I was with himi said lets play the game true that I just made up in my head he said ok I ask him this are you cheating on me he said nno he looked like he didt mean it so I ask anther one I said do you think I am cute he said yes he looked for real.so you should try to play that game ask him something that you really want to know if hee laugh or smile or giggle whenn he say the answear he is not forreal if he don't he is for real
Talk about anything that went on in your day. Ask about any future plans you two may have and if not make some as you talk. Ask about his day ask questions but don't annoy him just be a little curious so he knows you care.
Well you can talk about things you have in common like sports .or you could just talk about school,or plans with you want to do together.if you two really like each other I'm sure you will find something to talk about!
Well find something in common with him, for example, if you like baseball and he plays baseball ask him how his game/practice was plus this could also lead to a new date to a game. Also, try not to say anything corny.
Well you can talk about your favorite things and you ask each other questions and you can do stuff like things y'all both like and y'all can find a place to just sit and talk and share secrets or stuff like that
Talk about some things like, ah, such as the things in life, reading, television, and so on. If you talk to him about sex, those things happen accidentally...
Try planning something the previous day that's worth talking about and if you've been together for a long time talk about eachother aand that usually leads to a kiss
I talk bout basketball and never keep going on because they will think you don't ever SHUT-UP loll thats very true love brandie lee johnson I love you cole
