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If He Picks Arguments Just To Argue Does He Want To Leave Me?

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Cathleen Hill Profile
Cathleen Hill answered
The previous answer is correct in a nutshell. I had the same thoughts.

I just want to say in my own words that what you could do is the both of you together really need to talk about your relationship and make an agreement before your discussion not to argue but to actually talk about what you are looking for in your relationship. Nine times out of 10 I guarantee you, it is not you but something else. There is a build-up of frustrations due to other matters and it taken out on you for the smallest things. People just respond like that. They are overwhelmed and just can't deal with it. The bottom line is to talk and be open and honest with one another. This will open your eyes and help you in making a decision for your future.
Jolene Winn Profile
Jolene Winn answered
I don't know that he wants to call it off necessarily. Depending on what the fight is about, he might be having other issues that are being covered up by the arguments. Think back to when it started. Also, you can ask if he is ready to call it quits, because you can't keep up with all the drama and it's just to hard to get along. See what he says.
thanked the writer.
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Jolenew - with the advent of Blurtit introducing groups, there is a group on love and relationships.. Didin't know if you would be interested in looking at joining that group or creating your own, but thought I would mention. ;)
Robin Sargent Profile
Robin Sargent answered
I have found from past experiences that when they want to fight its not ever about the issue you are fighting over. There's something else going on and they either want to go with the boys or something more serious, like another woman or like you said maybe he is just done.
Jolene Winn Profile
Jolene Winn answered
I did put in a request to join that, thank you.

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