Just how far you get on a date is measured in many places in baseball terms. Whether or not you get to feel up a girl is expressed in terms of striking out, getting to first base, getting to second base, hitting a triple, or hitting what every man wants on every date, a home run.
If you strike out on a date, you'll be the laughingstock of your friends and family. This means that you did not even get kissed, which is the first objective of every man in an attempt to hit the home run. Getting to first base means you got French kissed, a quick peck on the cheek does not qualify as a single. Getting to second base is the point to where you can actually say you have felt up your date.
Getting to second base means you have actually gotten the top off of your date and done some serious exploring. If you want to know what you're doing once you get there the Karma Sutra is an excellent guide and there are a number of other good books on the subject that will make you look like a pro in the bedroom.
Getting to third base means you have done some serious roaming in the Southern Hemisphere. Once you have hit a triple you are only a short distance away from the promised land. Only 90 ft away lies the land of a home run, the place every man wants to go on every single date, otherwise, why would you even go on a date?
A home run means you have had sex with your date and if you do a good job once you get there odds are you'll be able to revisit the promised land with this lady again. Good luck and happy hitting!
If she allows herself to be very close to you, then you are good to go. The best way to start, in my opinion, is to begin by nuzzling and lightly kiss her neck (without tickling her). Breathe deeply and a little harder than normal to let her know that you enjoy the way she feels. Whisper to her that she smells good and how soft her skin is. At the same time, begin rubbing her back slowly from top to bottom, really letting her know that you enjoy feeling her and that she is turning you on.
If you are really smooth, you can quickly, but softly, unbutton one, just one, of her buttons and kiss her chest right there. The idea is to slowly widen the areas where you are touching and kissing her. Believe me, if you are doing it right, you will know by the way she responds.
At this point, she will usually let you touch her breasts through her shirt. Start by gently, but firmly, squeezing one with your palm. Then, using your thumb and forefinger, gently squeeze her nipple. If she seems to like it, tell her how good she feels and softly ask her if you could please feel her breast. The reason that you ask is because she will feel as if you respect her (and she will want you to do it anyway).
At this point, you should be well on your way. As long as you make her feel like she is irresistable and beautiful, she will want you to do more. Always make sure she feels wanted and comfortable and immediately back off if she wants to stop.
Tip. Stop yourself when things get really hot and tell her that you don;t want her to do anything she is uncomfortable with. This drives them CRAZY. 9 times out of 10 she will tell you she wants to continue and will then want you to ravish her.
Club her over the head and take her to your cave
Ummm wow. I'm a girl and my goodness this is too funny. I would say the best answer thus far is from my fellow gal-commenter. You def need to work up to it guys! Don't just go immediately for the breast! The best thing you can do to drive your girl crazy is to utilize anticipation. Take your time. Girls aren't immediately turned on like many guys are... There is no one "magic button" or move to seal the deal. Rather a slow combination of moves and built-up tension sets the stage for us. I have to say that "can I please feel your boobs" is probably going to be a major turn-off if said that way. Grow a pair guys. Please. You'll know if she wants it... If she isn't sending signals for it then it's most likely to early to try and you might freak her out.
Put your hand up her shirt and feel around.I'd recommend not doing that without the girls permission
Start by pulling her closly, arms around waist, then make your hand going up the back of her shirt.
Then if she likes this ( I do ) take your hand around to the front, and move your hands around her boobs, then sqeeze them.
If she likes that, ( I do ) then sqeeze her nipples until they get hard.
It might not make her feel good, but ease it on. I think it feels great!!!
Well I'm a girl and I would suggest that you start by kissing her on the lips ,pull her closer by her hips and keep your hands there. While you are kissing slowly reach up or on the outside of her top and the slowly rub yor hand around her boobs. Then if she lets you do this you can genterly squees them. If at any time she backs away or asks you to stop, STOP. Always start with the boobs not lower. Hope this helps x
I say start with kissing her with your hands on your waist and then slowly move them down to her butt, if she is okay with that then you can move up towards her breast(over her clothes) if she is still okay then you can move under her shirt and bra and massage her breast. But don't just focus on her sexual parts I suggest you kiss her. And then you can slowly move down to under her pants and feel under there too. Try to get her pants and shirt off and if things really start to heat up tell her you want to stop and she will defiantly want to go all the way. Yes I mean sex.
Start on top of the shirt slowly massage her then move under the bra (you skip on top of the bra it does nothing for either of you)massage them until nipples get hard then move on to the lower slart rubbing there on top of the underwear then go under them massage there too if she doesn't try to stop you roll on top of her start a slow hump motion as you feel pretty soon she will either let you screw her or will feel you up
iam a girl and I know this from boyfriend and friends-with-benifits
Tenderly. My first response would be respectfully, but then you would be refraining from your hormonic impulses and value her for who she is and for being with you, not for the physical gratification that disappears an hour after the excitement.