I Don't Feel Good Enough And Always Think My Boyfriend Can Do Better?

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Rebecca Lupton answered
I think that the main problem with regards to not feeling good enough is because of his ex's. Looking at them and judging what they have that I don't have...
I think there is a solution for this, it may be a matter of looking a the situation from a different perspective. Your boyfriend may be able to do better but that doesn't mean that he wants to do better, he loves you for you and thats why hes still with you. This means that yours and your boyfriend's relationships is unique, no one or nothing can even compare to your unique relationship with your partner and no one can ever take it away even if you break up. This is because your relationship is a unique creation that was created when the two of you came together as a couple.

You may find you consider other girls as a threat to your relationship with your boyfriend, whether its her looks, brains, occupation, what she is capable of or just general personality.
You on the other hand, have what it is that you partner is looking for. You are the full relationship package that is highest and best for him because he seeked out or found you and has chosen to stay with you, not move on.

I think that you should discuss this with your partner and figure out what it is that makes you feel insecure and not good enough and just work on that, try to build a stronger relationship with him.

Good luck.
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Anonymous answered
Mate I feel the same way, plus he has had way more experience and girls....bla bla bla.
Weneva I say something he comes out with 'its all about you', I'm like 'ye feck off, when your banana decided to stop of in every pothole from London to Australia'.

So anyways, if you feel like this when hes around you, its him - maybe hes not giving enough attention. Not the kind of 'attention seeking' attention, the normal ' I'm your gf kind'. But don't go after him you will just scare him.

If its when hes not around you, its still him, lol. Same advice as above.

Its a miracle when 2 people like each other and get together. And honey your not God, you can't decide whether the world is better than you or not. Just see where it goes. Work with what you got and work on what you want. Your confidence will boost. Try talking to him - my boyfriend changes the topic everytime I try. Nothings perfect eh? I really hope it works out for you...I think its a lost cause for me.

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