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What If You Love Someone Who You Barely Know?

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My dear guest, you may be infatuated with your acquaintance but you do not love her. You may wish to know her better but that is not love. You may think you 2 would make a great couple but that is not love. You may think she is great looking or a great lover of sports but that is not love. Until you have the courage to walk up and say, "I would love to go to the movies with you this weekend, would you be able go out with me?" Until you have spent some time with her and learned her likes and dislikes, you can not love her. You may think of her all day and dream of her at night but that is not love. Until you find out if she hates pizza and loves broccoli, until you know if she hates the color red and loves purple, until you know what kind of music she likes and if she loves scary movies...you can not love her. You see, to really love a person, you must truly know them. To love a person, you must have more in common than thinking she is good looking and knowing that she goes to all the football games. You must feel a connection to that person and feel a real desire to please that person and to support that person when she is having a difficult day and you must be willing to go and do things that you do not particularly enjoy dong. You want that person to be happy no matter what you must sacrifice to see that it happens. That, my dear guest, is love. I hope you get up the nerve to reach out to the one that you may someday love. But...right now this girl is just an acquaintance..and possibly someone you will love in the future. It's up to you. Make that move. Good luck.
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My dear guest, you may be infatuated with your acquaintance but you do not love her. You may wish to know her better but that is not love. You may think you 2 would make a great couple but that is not love. You may think she is great looking or a great lover of sports but that is not love. Until you have the courage to walk up and say, "I would love to go to the movies with you this weekend, would you be able go out with me?" Until you have spent some time with her and learned her likes and dislikes, you can not love her. You may think of her all day and dream of her at night but that is not love. Until you find out if she hates pizza and loves broccoli, until you know if she hates the color red and loves purple, until you know what kind of music she likes and if she loves scary movies...you can not love her. You see, to really love a person, you must truly know them. To love a person, you must have more in common than thinking she is good looking and knowing that she goes to all the football games. You must feel a connection to that person and feel a real desire to please that person and to support that person when she is having a difficult day and you must be willing to go and do things that you do not particularly enjoy dong. You want that person to be happy no matter what you must sacrifice to see that it happens. That, my dear guest, is love. I hope you get up the nerve to reach out to the one that you may someday love. But...right now this girl is just an acquaintance..and possibly someone you will love in the future. It's up to you. Make that move. Good luck.
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I'm  a 15 yr old kid and I don't talk to her much but when I'm around her I can't talk I try to it just wont come out I got her number on accident I was texting her I can just talk better that way, but she has a bf and she told me to stop texting her, and I think about her all day long she just refuses to text back what do I do?
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It sounds like she really is not the girl for you. She has made it clear that she has a BF. You deserve to have a girl that thinks as much of you as you do of her. You deserve a girl who looks forward to being with you and talking to you and texting you. If you continue to text her when she has asked you not to, it indicates to her that you can not respect her wishes and even if she breaks up with the BF, she may not give you a chance. It may be hard, but you need to look for another girl.
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Maybe there is a compatible soul connection, like love at first sight. Love at first sight deals with intuition.

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