"Hey babe, would you mind if you didn't come over today (or whenever)? I would love to spend time with you, but I have so much I need to catch up on."
How to tell boyfriend I don't want to spend usual time with him at my home. I just feel I need more time to myself to get things done and don't want to be responsible for taking care of "company"?
Please I just feel I need more time to myself to get things done. I'll call you in a week.
He's going to have a fit, yell, scream and be unpleasant. Most people are when you tell them you need a little space and time alone. They say tell me but....
Like most people do ! Just tell him you need some space at times. He should understand the simple truth of the matter. We all need space and time to ourselves to do what we must. Just nicely tell him that!