My bfs ex wont leave him alone, she texts him Reminiscing about their relationship and it really annoys me, he deletes the messages and ignores her. Should i ask him to tell her to stop?

Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Since he's deleting the messages, I don't think you need to say anything unless he is answering her. As long as he's not, she'll get the hint after a while and stop. It shows he thinks more of you by deleting that stuff. You'll be fine. Just make sure he doesn't answer or she'll keep doing it.

Dance like a gypsy answered

If he's already ignoring her then you don't need to worry about it. I think you should tell him to block her.

Cookie Roma answered

Apparently she chooses not to understand what he is saying. His ignoring her (by deleting her texts) isn't getting through to her. What makes you think his telling her to stop will help? The only persons actions you need to be concerned with is his. He can't "make" anyone do something they don't want to do.

Pepper pot answered

He could block her number.

Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Your best bet is stay out of it for now and let your BF handle it or else youll only open another can of worms and prolong this and she will take it out on him. Unless she turns dangerous, ignore her as she will get tired of her little game and let it go so be patient but from experience , keep an eye on your BF so that he doesn't falter here. Good luck

My bfs ex wont leave him alone, she texts him Reminiscing about their relationship and it really annoys me, he deletes the messages and ignores her. Should i ask him to tell her to stop?

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