Your virginity is based on your hymen being intact or not. If you have engaged in an act that has caused you to bleed from your vagina (if he's fingered you too hard or you've engaged in full intercourse) then you're technically no longer a virgin. However virginity it is usually socially defined as not having had full intercourse. If you haven't then it is still socially acceptable to call yourself a virgin.
A friend of mine 'lost her virginity when she was horse riding as a young girl (her hymen broke) she obviously still considered herself a virgin until her 'first time' many years later.
Virginity isn't the only thing that would make you 'feel it like usual', maybe you just weren't quite 'in the mood' or sometimes in different stages of your menstrual cycle things feel different. Don't worry about it too much, as long as you're safe keep enjoying yourself! :)
A friend of mine 'lost her virginity when she was horse riding as a young girl (her hymen broke) she obviously still considered herself a virgin until her 'first time' many years later.
Virginity isn't the only thing that would make you 'feel it like usual', maybe you just weren't quite 'in the mood' or sometimes in different stages of your menstrual cycle things feel different. Don't worry about it too much, as long as you're safe keep enjoying yourself! :)