If the husband does not love the wife and she does not wish to continue to live with someone who does not care for her, she needs to contact an attorney and begin divorce proceedings. There is no way for a woman to make (force) a man to love her. He either does or he does not. She can show him with her actions that she is a loving, kind, considerate, helpful, loyal, dutiful wife but if he does not love her, those attributes will not sway him. Then she must decide to continue on as she is or end the marriage and look for someone that will appreciate her for the person she is. Some women prefer to stay in such a marriage rather than to strike out alone and others will not tolerate the type of life a loveless marriage offers. It is your decision.