Well it is possible she is psycho I must also consider the source describing her..... You're a kid of hers.... She should theoretically only want the best for you, to see you achieve the most out of life. Perhaps her expectations and strict behavior is a drag, most likely it would be.... But ideally it would be coming out of a good place, she doesn't want to see you fall into the traps of life that she may have fallen into at one point or another.