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My Wife Keeps Pictures Of Ex-lovers, Does It Means That She Might Go Again To Them?

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My wife also kept pictures of her exes. Especially of her ex fiancee. She really used to love him but he cheated on her. He was a jerk and she put up with him for many years. I found the pictures on accident hidden in a box that broke open when I was cleaning our basement. We had been together for 15 years and still this box was there. I didn't know it existed and didn't even realize that I had probably moved it from house to house as we moved over the years.

It does hurt some of us guys because we want to be the only ones that she ever loved. But that is unrealistic for many of us. We men find it easier to get rid of pictures and old things that no longer exist. So when we find these things it can hurt us. We wonder if maybe they still loved that person and settled for us in order to not be alone. That is insecurity at it's worst but it happens. I left the pictures in the box and after a few months I couldn't resist to tell my wife and she got mad saying that I should have not browsed through them so thoroughly and instead should have quickly resealed the box and taken them to her or put them back. What did she expect. It was an accident that released Pandora's box.

Well, long story short, I am resentful that she didn't hide them in a better place but more resentful that I got rid of my stuff if she got to keep hers.
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A lot of people, especially women, keep pictures of ex's as a reminder and nothing more. Just to remind them of the good times they had together, which are clearly important as these ex's were important at one time. So, I'm sure you have nothing to worry about as ultimately there must be reasons why your her husband and there her ex's.

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