Is it a fair for a husband to cheat on his wife 3 times because the wife cheated on him 1 time? And is it the wife fault, the husband cheated?

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Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
No as no one forced either to cheat and cheating is usually a hidden more serious problem within the marriage and more cheating does not nor ever will fix the first time no matter who committed it. Its just plain stupid all the way around here. Two wrongs never make a right. Retaliation or revenge is never an excuse to cheat so this tells me this marriage is doomed to end in a disaster soon as both know they can and what will be the consequences so both act like little kids here which is not good so whatever the real problem here is, it needs to be fixed or this will just continue til someone kills the other
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alita la brie
alita la brie commented
The husband said, when he is mad, he doesn't think, he just act. The husband feels the wife deserved to get cheated on because she cheated on him. His intentions to cheat on the wife was to make her feel the pain he felt when she cheated. The wife do believe 2 wrongs does not make a right but the husband believes 2 wrongs does make a right. Is that fair ? Whoever hurt him, he wants the other person to feel the pain too. Should the wife stay or leave? He wanted to teach her a lesson.
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Maddie answered
It's NEVER okay to cheat. The husband has no excuse for not being loyal to his marriage decision. If he's mad at his wife sooo much then why doesn't he talk it out instead of going and doing what she did, except three times as much? It's not okay. It's never the wife's fault that the husband cheated. He made the action himself. He can't blame anybody but himself. A wife can do some things but the husband took action on his own conscience.
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Maddie
Maddie commented
He should continue with his anger management and if it still isn't enough, then he obviously doesn't care about the marriage enough to continue it and to avoid additional pain and stress the wife should make the decision of whether she wants to go through it anymore.
alita la brie
alita la brie commented
Now that cheating has taken place in their marriage: The wife is not happy with their marriage, but since she made this mistake, she feels, she has to say in this unhappy marriage because of the pain she caused. What is the wife going thru and what is it called? Why does she feel that way?
alita la brie
alita la brie commented
The wife sees the husband is getting anger management but she feels that will not work because he waited too long to get the help. Is that normal to feel that way ? And you feel she is really him credit ?
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The marriage will not last. Cheating ends marriages. It does not matter who is right and who is wrong. The marriage is over.
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alita la brie
alita la brie commented
How do you know, have been thru that experience?
roaming insomniac
My EX husband was a cheater. I never cheat.
roaming insomniac
My EX cheated on me. I never cheated. After a year of trying to make it work with counseling I realized I would NEVER trust him again. Clearly cheating ended the trust and the marriage.

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