I'm dating a guy who was cheated on by his ex-wife & seems guarded. What is the best way for me to show him love?


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Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

You just be yourself, honest and patient, he needs time to regain the strength of his trust, the healing process takes time.

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

Just be yourself and express love as you feel most comfortable.  There's no "best way" here.  It will either work or it won't. 

Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

You've just got to be who you are so that he isn't dating a pretend version of you, pretence can only be kept up so long because it's draining, then he won't know who he is dating when you have had enough of trying to be someone he may like. You need to let him know who you are right from the get go, regardless of his past. The time is now, the relationship is with you and him.

Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

If you know he cheated on someone he vowed to be faithful to, why worry?  You do understand that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior?  Right??

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